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Archived questions from: 22 October, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What is the best way to handle a Bf who keeps on looking up Ex Gfs ? He makes me feel as if I am not good enough for him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3712 days ago

22 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am seeking for some help and advice on a situation that has totally damaged me.. I have a boyfriend that I have been dating for 2 years but we have dated before this two year relationship as well. This 2 year relationship has came across as fake and unwanted becaus... (333 words)

If I'm not wanted why did he put in so much effort?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3713 days ago

22 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Thank you in advance for your help. This is a bit wordy, but hopefully, the information will paint a more complete picture of what happened. -December 2013: began e-mail contact with a man who had similar interests; we got along very well. -Early February 2014: we began... (879 words)

Is it normal to have romantic feelings for lots of people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3712 days ago

22 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Is it normal to have strong feelings for many people (like ten) at the same time (guys girls everyone)? My best friend thinks it's kind of slutty but I just seem to like (have romantic feelings towards) lots of people is there something wrong with me?... (46 words)

I don't feel like I'm good enough so my teacher's encouragement seems like a fraud

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3711 days ago

22 October 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - Why does my teacher see potential in me when there are other smart students? I am a standard student and get standard grades in my history class. Although i am told i am smart, i just don't see it! Ever essay i do feels like rubbish and i feel like i get a standard grade. ... (340 words)

Separation anxiety-how long until you get better?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3687 days ago

22 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Please don't judge and I'm only asking to try to learn and grow as a person. I've been in a relationship for 10 yrs. and for the past year and a half it's been miserable. I had an affair and I didn't fall in love, i did it to satisfy my sexual needs that I couldn't bare to beg ... (194 words)

Is this a normal part of aging for men?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3712 days ago

22 October 2014 (F)

age - My spouse is a few years older. We have an active sex life, but however, there are times that he has a hard time reaching an orgasm. Is this a normal part of aging for men? Is there any lubricant or any recommendation that will assist him in achieving a faster orgasms? ... (64 words)

I no longer fancy my wife

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3705 days ago

22 October 2014 (M)

age - Hi all, I am in my 50's been married 25 years got two great kids , grown up, mootgage payed blah blah but just hate my life My wife does a lot, cook, wash, iron that's it, a housemaid She is lazy, layback, won't communicate with me. My life is crap, I work so hard whilst she ... (153 words)

Confused about getting married

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3711 days ago

22 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi! I am a 31 years old woman single and a virgin. I live in Pakistan where you can only have a relationship when you are married. SO arrange marriages are usually the case here. I married six years ago to a guy but we ended up divorced. Now I am scared of getting married ... (196 words)

The girl I have a crush on now hates me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3713 days ago

22 October 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi. So im a bi girl, and i love this other girl, SN, with all my heart. Now, she found out some time ago, when we were still good friends. When she found out, she avoided me for two weeks, but then we sorted it out and we were good friends again, even though she knew i still lo... (139 words)

My boyfriend doesn't acknowledge our relationship publically

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3713 days ago

22 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Why my bf of almost 10 mths doesn't want to hold my hands in the public (he even walk far from me) nor want our relationship to be disclose even to our church members nor want to put our photo together in whatsapp profile nor in the facebook (but he claims he has no facebook). ... (625 words)

Can interracial relationships really work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3713 days ago

22 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I hear stories that Korean guys treat you VERY differently after marriage. They may be awesome boyfriends but after the wedding, they turn 180degrees. They focus only on working, they expect you to do all the chores, they listen to their parents (esp. Your Mom-in-law) more than ... (274 words)

Do you agree that when you are past 30 your options shrink?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3713 days ago

22 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I was in a relationship for 4 years, and now we went our separate ways. I am 32 and I feel like my option in finding a lifetime partner and have a family shrunk tremendously over these 4 years. My ex was only a year older than me, now I get an attention from guys who are clo... (251 words)

How do I accept that I'm in a sexless relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3705 days ago

22 October 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - It bothers me when my guy watches porn and gets himself off. Why? Because he will do it just before I get home, right after I leave, when he thinks I'm sleeping and I am always ready and willing. In the last 5 months we have had sex 5 times. I've given him many many blow jobs. ... (266 words)

No one will rent an apartment to me because of my children! Advice?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3709 days ago

22 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been apartment searching for 3yrs and I have been rejected hundreds of times. I have no criminal back, my credit is decent because I never had credit cards. Its not great but not bad its almost 700. People have been discriminating against me because of my 3 children; teen, ... (259 words)

He's like drug, I can't help myself, so does this mean he is the one using me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3709 days ago

22 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - What's wrong with me? Iv been seeing this guy for 2 years now. Hes 21 and I'm 25. Everything has been great moved in.together its good. Recently a old friend with benefits got in contact, saying he really wanted/needed to see me. I have known him for 10 years, not seen himiin ... (331 words)

I can't stop thinking about her! I know it's unfair on my boyfriend, so what do I do next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3714 days ago

22 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have posted something like this before but here it goes.. I'm 20, a girl, and have been going out with my Boyf for 3 years. We recently went on holiday with his family and his cousin took a friend who is also a girl with her.. She is 29 and beautiful! I got on well with her, ... (410 words)