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Archived questions from: 2 October, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is he remotely into me? Is this a crush? What kind of guy does he seem to be to you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3732 days ago

2 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I have only been in my school for a month and there is a boy who has caught my attention. But I have no idea of how to know if he likes me and my friends aren't the greatest help, either way here is what has happen. 1. I'll catch him staring at me and even my friend h... (372 words)

Or something else? My Bf thinks it means I am cheating. I am not cheating.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3732 days ago

2 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - hi most of the time when i have sex with my boyfrnd lots of water comes seems to come out my vagina...now he thinks i am cheating...is it normal or its a disease or is it something else? I am not cheating. ... (44 words)

Can a relationship survive an affair? Purely on love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3732 days ago

2 October 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everybody, this is my first time asking something like this, but I guess you can say I'm desperate. I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 5 years, I new I loved her after a few months of being with her at the age of 17. She's amazing, beautiful and loving. She has ... (1051 words)

I want to be with this guy but I don't want to create a situation that would be bad for us or our other flat mates

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3733 days ago

2 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hiya Ive just started university and im living in halls. My problem is thr chemistry with one of my room mates. Ive been living here for just over a month but had spoken to this particular room mate a lot before I arrived and we had skyped etc. At first I just though we had ... (361 words)

His daily gambling is getting in the way of our relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3732 days ago

2 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm with my fiancee two years and for the first time ever I feel like he prefers his phone more than me. 2 months ago he told me that he would set up a betting account and make very small bets to make money for a savings account. He said his limit would be 60 a month. I thought ... (334 words)

He broke up with the real me, but not before agreeing to a date with the fake profile I made on a dating site! Should I cancel in advance or just stand him up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3732 days ago

2 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I was seeing a guy from work for about 4 months but nothing was too serious as I had just come out of a long term relationship. One night as we was snuggled on the sofa, his phone went off and it was a notification from a dating website. I didn't say anything but was... (230 words)

I can't be with both girls! I have a lovely girl here but what about the one who I met in Florida?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3720 days ago

2 October 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Thank you for reading - it's quite funny as I'm normally the one my friends ask for advice, yet here I am asking you all... It's been hard and I haven't been able to sleep much so I really need an outside perspective- thank you. I met a girl about 4 months ago - she lives ... (437 words)

Attractive women: what is it like to be attractive to men, and how do you expect them to behave around you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3732 days ago

2 October 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - You can be walking down the street (or in a store), and men would approach and ask for your name and number. Or you're at the club and they offer to buy you a drink. Pretty much wherever you are, men shower you with attention, even if you just met. And after years of ... (136 words)

Do I end a 3 year relationship and take a gamble on someone I think I have stronger feelings for or do I stick with what I have?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3733 days ago

2 October 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a bit problem, and subsequent decision to make... two girls fighting for me and my affections. On one side i have my patner who i've been with for 3 years, i'm happy / content with her but id say not madly in love. the other side is a co- worker who i have ... (131 words)

I'm feeling neglected because of his friends and sports

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3733 days ago

2 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do some men choose their friends and sport over their girlfriend? My situation is that i live with my boyfriend he is away monday and wednesday for 3 hrs at night goi ng to play his sport then he goes body boarding either fridays or during the weekend. This happens ... (218 words)

My Gf is not talking to me, and am I studying for the right reasons?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3733 days ago

2 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I was seeking some guidance In regards to my relationship and study which I've just started. I started my first day of college yesterday, I loved the work but I don't like the college life because I'm too old, I'm a 24 year old woman sat with 16 year old boys who won't t... (220 words)

Should I trust my boyfriend or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3733 days ago

2 October 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - my bf and I have been dating for a week and 3 days. we have hugged a few times but thats all. plus I think hes flirting with other girls. he has also drawled me pictures but I dont know if I should trust him. should i?... (47 words)

What makes a person interesting and why are some people ignored?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3732 days ago

2 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - what makes a person interesting? Im an accepting and kind/caring person, Im quieter, single,a few friends who I see occasionally but are often very busy, but I enjoy conversation one to one and in small groups and I can be quiet assertive even pushy, when I ne... (407 words)

I don't want to be "the negotiator" in disagreements between my boyfriend and his father!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3732 days ago

2 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I asked you guys about my bf and father's relationship a few weeks ago. I would really appreciate it if you could help me out once again with my problem. I've been with my bf for over 3 yrs now. Him and his father don't get along at all and because of this, my bf was always ... (529 words)

The girl I met online asked about my sexual past. I answered truthfully and now she's gone quiet!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3733 days ago

2 October 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl online, really like her n she's 18 n im 23 almost 24. she says she's a virgin although I did not expect that i was really happy. she seemed shy to ask questions so i told her to ask anything on her mind n i won't lie. which i didn't. she asked me how many gf ... (169 words)

I can't get his cousin out of my head

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3733 days ago

2 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am a 19 year old girl and I am sooo confused! I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years now, I love him to bits and would do anything for him.. However, lately we went on holiday abroad with his family, and his cousin who is married brought along he... (269 words)

Why does he only interrupt me when I'm studying?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3733 days ago

2 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm married 34 year old woman who recently started school. I am in my second term now and have an established schedule for study, family and spouse time. I love my husband dearly and openly he says he is happy that I am in school and how proud of how I did last term. Which is ... (241 words)