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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I got married less than a month ago and I think it was a mistake! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3689 days ago

14 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I just got married less than a month ago and I am having all of these feelings and thoughts that it isn't right. That I made a mistake. He isn't the one. I feel so lost because I have been with him for over 5 years... since I was 19 years old. Don't get me wrong... I love him. ... (486 words)

He's pulled away after seeming to fall for me so fast at the outset. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3689 days ago

14 October 2014 (F)

age - I met a man online, we chatted, then called one another. We have talked every day since. Things were fantastic. He was falling for me so quickly that it freaked me out a little. He scared me. I have a busy life with family and friends and although he didn't feel threatened ... (267 words)

How can I look thinner, feel thinner, and have my clothes fit better, yet still weigh the same thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3689 days ago

14 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I have some questions about weight. I was on a medication that I thought was causing me weight gain. (You'll find out why I said 'thought' when you read the rest). My stomach was looking bloated, and my legs were getting rather celluity. I'm 5'6", and was weighed at 165 pounds ... (345 words)

Could it be men see hurt in my body language, and that's why I am still single?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

14 October 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid,I really want to have a friend for the new year but no one seems to be looking my way if they are I can't tell.I have been single for many years about 13 and now I want companionship.I just turned 43 yesterday I feel and look young I still have my youth look my pass ... (91 words)

Am I overreacting about my boyfriend's comment?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

14 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend said something last night that has left me feeling insecure this morning so I would like other opinions on whether I'm overreacting and just take it as him being honest. We were talking last night about opposite sexes/physical appearances and he said "if i could ... (220 words)

How do I break up with this liar I love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3689 days ago

14 October 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I've met this guy ten months ago. He seemed like a decent individual. We took our time to get to know one another. We've been intimate approximately 6 times throughout the 10 months of dating. I've always been skeptical about somethings about him. I periodica... (184 words)

How to tell if a work colleague likes you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3689 days ago

14 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - i like my work colleague a lot. but i not sure if he likes me or not, we work in a bank but on different departments. sometimes i look around and see him looking at me but not sure if he like me..... i have been working there for 3 months now and he hasn't made any mo... (87 words)

I'm very hurt by this comment he made! What does he mean? Is this a brush-off?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3689 days ago

14 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my online friend last week which was amazing after being friends for a year. We hit it off and ther was a real connection both of us very attracted to the other. He has messaged me everyday since and we both miss each other so much already. But then last night he... (130 words)

He's amazing but he does drugs. Am I being too fussy by finding it a deal breaker?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

14 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently met a 30-year-old guy whom I hit it off really well with - he flirts with me heavily all the time and he is clearly a very kind person (he stopped to give an old lady change for the bus the other day because she couldn't find her purse - little things like that). He ... (374 words)

She never got rid of the explicit pictures of her ex! Do I just throw them away or confront her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3688 days ago

14 October 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a question. My wife and I are together 7 years married for 5. When we moved in together she had some pictures of an ex boyfriend. I was fine with some of them but there was 1 where they were kissing and a few of him in various states of undress up to and including na... (123 words)

I'm going to see him for a day at Christmas, should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3689 days ago

14 October 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - i realy like this guy and we are best friends and i realy like him but now i live in another contry i also kinda like two other guys in my class and they both tease me a bit. I'm going to meet my friend at christmas for a day. what shall i do i don't want to ruin our friendship ... (65 words)

How do I tell my father that I am pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3689 days ago

14 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, I need some advice on how to tell my father that I am pregnant. My parents divorced when I was 9 and I have lived with my dad since then. I see my mom a couple of times a year but we are not close at all. My dad has been amazing and we are very close but sex and ... (144 words)

How do you ask your boyfriend, who is a recent IV drug user, to get tested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

14 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you ask your boyfriend, who is a recent IV drug user, to get tested? We are reaching the point in our relationship where we are going to be taking things to the next level physically, but I am terrified of putting myself at risk for StDs/HIV. The problem is, it's a... (85 words)

I haven't met my LD boyfriend yet but I'm not sure if I should!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

14 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! My LD boyfriend wants me to visit him but I don't know if I should and to even have the guts to tell my family about what he's planning? When he was in the same state as I am currently in now, he had plenty of chances to meet me, sometimes he would promise me but to n... (351 words)

I just lost my baby and her father is cheating on me, how do I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3689 days ago

14 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I just lost my daughter at 7 months pregnant. I had an emergency c section. I'm staying with family because the father cannot support or take care of me. I can locate his phone and he's been with another woman. He's introduced her to his coworkers. He stays with her in a hotel. ... (89 words)

Rude abusive brother. He's especially nasty when he can't get his own way. How can I stop him speaking to me like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3688 days ago

14 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I suffer from depression. My younger brother and I used to very close, but over the years he has grown distant. Although we live together, we rarely speak anymore because he is always out. When he wants something from me, he will speak to me, and if I dont give it to him (... (143 words)

I'm in a new relationship. But how do I stop being so untrusting anxious that he'll leave me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3688 days ago

14 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I had been in this new relationship for about two months. We first were just working on a construction job together but it gradually turned into us living together in the house we are working on and him working for me. I have 4 children that dont live with me and am 4 months p... (333 words)

I don't want to lose him, but I want to live a bit before I commit

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3687 days ago

14 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 21 and I was raised by conservative parents to believe that I would someday find my "prince" and I would live happily ever after. When I was 17 I met him and he was my first kiss/time/love, he's amazing, he's everything I want for the rest of my life. He's the guy I'd ... (166 words)