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Archived questions from: 24 October, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He lied to me and now I can't just forgive and move on

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3679 days ago

24 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I really need help. My boyfriend and I had been friends for a couple of years before dating. He had asked me out several times but I always declined. Mostly because I was in an on and off again relationship at the time and did not want to get him involved in that. Eventually my ... (1040 words)

Do I risk all and go Or cut my losses?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3679 days ago

24 October 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi! I live in England and was quite happily leading a quiet life of study martial arts and contemplation when a girl who had seen me in the street and just so happened to be friends with a few of my neighbors took a massive liking to me and we ended up spending two magical ... (436 words)

Lately things have been different but I hesitate to ask if he's interested in me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3676 days ago

24 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have a good friend who I used to have a FWB relationship with a long while back. But then I started having feelings for him but when I asked if he felt the same he said he just wanted to be friends. After that we were a little more distanced but we were still decent ... (309 words)

Dating a coworker that cheated on his gf, will we last????

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3677 days ago

24 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I just started dating a coworker, he is 8 years older then me. He was in a relationship with someone he lived with for over a year. He wasn't happy and we started talking and flirting and it lead to more. We got really close. Well one night out we made out and then after a big ... (119 words)

Should he still be friends with her on Facebook?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3680 days ago

24 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I just found out my boyfriend is friends on Facebook with a girl he had a one night stand with while we were split up for a period last year. It probably shouldn't be a big deal but she just commented on his status and it really bothered me. It gave me that sick, sinking, ... (88 words)

Why would the owners of the business tell me such confidential information?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3680 days ago

24 October 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - My boss just quit recently. Now the owners called me to tell me that they are getting ready to fire her boss. They said they want me to stick around and hang in there. They are planning to tell him in Monday. Since my boss quit it is just me as an employee and three owners. It ... (70 words)

My boyfriend wants to try a position I don't and won't take no for an answer!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3674 days ago

24 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - *contains sexual content* hey there aunts and uncles, Ok so im in a happy loving relationship me andy partner are very sexually experimental .. outdoors .. toys .. role play ... dress up .. he has had 2 previous partners one at age 14 and one age 15 they were only a h... (285 words)

I just found out my boyfriend I'm planning a future with already has a girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3680 days ago

24 October 2014 (?) age 36-40 - Hi I wouldn't usually ask questions on sites like this but I really need some advice-not even really advice but maybe to make me feel better :/. I recently met a guy online who is a technician in the army, he is based about an hour from me,he's 27, has mild autism and has a ... (1603 words)

Is my girlfriend unhappy in our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3647 days ago

24 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys! Just a quick question, I am in a same sex relationship, have been for 7months. My gf has a young child with an ex guy she was with for 7 years. Anyways I saw a text on her phone from her asking this ex if "she had let herself go?" Then he replied saying how beaut... (188 words)

My friend/room mate doesn't like my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3680 days ago

24 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys, I'm having troubles with my roommate. She has been a best friend of mine for about 5 years. recently we decided to rent an apartment together. Everything is ok except for she hates my boyfriend of who i have been dating for 2 years. Recently my boyfriend tri... (377 words)

How do I get out of my depressed slump?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3680 days ago

24 October 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - I’ve been feeling so shitty lately. I feel very inadequate in who I am and in everything I do. It’s like no matter what I do, No matter how hard I try, I’ll never be good enough. I'm not the smartest, the wittiest, the funniest, or the most attractive guy. I'm average on ... (195 words)

I'm having doubts about the relationship because my boyfriend drinks to excess

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3680 days ago

24 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. He is intelligent and funny and fun to be with and we share many interests. What we don't share is his interest and committment to drinking on a daily basis, and at least 3 times a week being drunk to the point of slurring or slow ... (294 words)

I'm afraid my boyfriend will cheat while he is on vacation

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3681 days ago

24 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is going on a three week trip to a different country. I'm not going because a) I don't have the funds and b) it's during the holidays and I want to stay with my family. He's going with his sister and a bunch of friends. Most of the friends, I believe, are fem... (216 words)

Does my coworker like me as more than a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3680 days ago

24 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - There's a guy that I work with and we always joke around and hit each-other in a friendly way. So I told him as a joke that we have a very abusive relationship. He's like not relationship. And I was like yea...abusiveee....and he says friendship. Does that mean he considers me ... (97 words)

If he cheats to be with you, does that mean he will 100 per cent cheat ON YOU?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3680 days ago

24 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I have been dating a married man for almost a year and a half. He does have genuine feelings for me and we have great sex and chemistry and a good friendship. He is comfortable with his wife and not leaving. I am not totally okay with this but I have accept... (780 words)

Am I right to be suspicious of my boyfriend and his gay colleague?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3681 days ago

24 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, So my current boyfriend has been I don't know complicated. He tells me he loves me and is straight and I'm the only one for him but there's a guy at work. He's in a more senior position and gay. I have always gotten along with him however since he found out me and m... (394 words)