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Archived questions from: 30 October, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm tired of dealing with my friend's manipulative husband

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3673 days ago

30 October 2014 (?)

- I'm not sure how to handle this situation with my very best friend. (I'm her very best friend too) The problem is that she tells me she doesn't give a crap if her husband gets mad at her but her actions don't match her words. Every time we want to do something together her ... (307 words)

Am I asking too much from him --- drinking and sexual abuse

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3673 days ago

30 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry this is so long. I hope someone takes the time to read it. I've been recently dealing with some guilt involving my relationship with my fiance. We have an awesome relationship first of all. I know we are meant to be together and we talk about everything. I recentl... (688 words)

Worried about girlfriends nightlife

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3669 days ago

30 October 2014 (M) age 36-40 - Ok, my girlfriend is away at college for the past 3yrs and everything has been great. She goes out to drink once in a great while with her friends and I don't mind because I know her friends and they are good people. I myself hate drinking, hate drunk people I just hate the... (325 words)

Can a man commit to just his wife?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3673 days ago

30 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - wow... its been a couple years of being a part of this site.. i look back at the past questions i have asked. lol... but here i am again. i have feelings that my amazing husband is cheating on me. is here such a thing of a man to be committed to one person or is it a ... (81 words)

Is our sex life suffering because of what he's doing on his phone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3674 days ago

30 October 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband comments on my clothes if he thinks I look sexy in them, then there are days he doesn't even notice anything about me. Another issue is, he gets turned on by me, starts getting intimate, touches, undresses me, he gets sexually aroused, so do i, but just when i think ... (192 words)

It's like I don't know to date him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3674 days ago

30 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this guy for five months now and nowadays he has gotten a behaviour of not calling me at all even when I text him he never replies my text I talked to him about it and I was telling he how its better off if we break up.he got really emotional and begged me ... (129 words)

Violence and lack of respect in our marriage -- how do we work on this on our own?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3673 days ago

30 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Once in awhile my husband and I get into some real physical fights, which is NOT acceptable, I know that. Last night it started with my husband coming home after travelling for a week (I was alone with my toddlers), and he noticed a crack in the dishwasher door and blurted out ... (514 words)

Falling for partner's friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3674 days ago

30 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been in a relationship for 15 yrs. it's not a good relationship and hasn't been for at least 5 yrs or so, we are really only together out of easiness and we have an 8 yr old daughter. Other than that we sort of lead separate lives. The problem started about a yr ago ... (560 words)

He wants to live with us and I don't want him to think it's a free ride

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3671 days ago

30 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Aunts and Uncles. I guess I need some advice from strangers purely because everyone who knows me or my boyfriend seem to be giving their opinion based on how things were between us before. We have a four year old son, and he wasn't planned. We were 18, so I didn't... (520 words)

Did I cheat because of how he behaves on line?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3671 days ago

30 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been in a relationship for 14 years. started dating him at the age of 17 him 27 now aged 31 and him 41. im confused. i cheated on him with a friend of ours. i have seen his facebook over the last couple of years with all porn sites and stuff. messages with hints of him ... (154 words)

Is 'heartache' a figurative term or does it really hurt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3674 days ago

30 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I've often heard of the term 'Heartache' but is it possible to feel real pain in the heart from missing someone, breaking up with someone, being hurt by someone emotionally, etc? Often times when I think of the possibility of breaking up with my boyfriend, or big argument... (110 words)

We got back together but the spark just isn't there

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3674 days ago

30 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - We've been together for 5 years and we lose that spark we had before. We almost argue and fight all the time and we broke up 3 months before and now getting back together again. But things have changed and so do our feelings. He said he doesn't know what he expect from this... (626 words)

I don't want to be superficial, and I know the problem can be fixed ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3674 days ago

30 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone......There is this guy I have been seeing for a month now.he is a great guy and I like him.but I can't stand his lips.we haven't kissed yet and it's all because his lips gross me out.he has a habit of chewing his lips which is an annoying habit for a 27 year old.as ... (132 words)

Can steroids and ice be reason for cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3673 days ago

30 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I'm going through a tough experience. My partner and I were in an amazing rship for almost 2 years everything was perfect we were best friends and lovers n I couldn't fault him and then things changed n he was snorting ice and taking steroids.. Our rship changed and so did ... (410 words)

My husband stays in contact with his racist father

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3673 days ago

30 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all, I am a black woman and my husband is white. We've been together four years and married this summer just gone. The problem is this. The rest of his family are lovely and I have never encountered any problems. But his father is severely racist. He will not dis... (426 words)

I always resented her for leaning on my boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3674 days ago

30 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do. My boyfriend (of 2.5 years) made a female friend about a year ago who has a lot of emotional issues. She is depressed and cuts. He has always been there to support her even to the degree that it has pissed me off because she had her own boyfriend. A... (218 words)

My ex sees what I did as cheating

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3674 days ago

30 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone. i have a question for ull. i had been going out with my ex for a bit more than one year and we were on a break. i went out with this other guy for a movie and i kissed him on the cheek and he kissed me on my lips nd i pushed hin away and i realised how much i ... (226 words)

My crush went back to his ex??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3674 days ago

30 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - So i like this guy he was my crush we were friends and all but one day he told me he felt the same. We started having a flirtationship but then he went back to his ex!? Why i just dont understand i feel confident in my self to know i have positive qualities. But in class i ... (93 words)