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Archived questions from: 31 October, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He hides his phone when he gets a text?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3663 days ago

31 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I have recently noticed the app 'Tinder' on my boyfriends mobile the other day, which made me think as this is a dating website and he has no reason to be on there as he is in a relationship. Another thing I have noticed is that whenever he gets a snapchat he hides it, we have ... (124 words)

If he's not happy why doesn't he just leave?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3621 days ago

31 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm really new to this site, hopefully you guys can help me with some good advice. I have been with the same man for almost 5 years now and we have a child together who is 4. When I first got with him I was so happy, I fell in love rather quickly. He was ... (298 words)

How do you let a man understand that having premarital sex is not the way to go

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3672 days ago

31 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Any man out here waited for their woman who did not want to have premarital sex and married her? And how are you doing in the marriage. Or do you know of anyone who this worked for? I am recently single two years ago and made a vow to the Lord that I will like to walk the... (484 words)

When the bf looks at other woman and their pictures, is that what he really wants?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3673 days ago

31 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I understand that men sometimes can't help looking at another attractive woman or scrolling through their pictures of fb. I know that my boyfriend does both of these things (not on a regular basis, but occasionally). After reading about why men behave this way and what should ... (259 words)

We've been playing cat and mouse for months. How do I tell him I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3673 days ago

31 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, how do I let a guy know i like him? He is a good bit older than me and I know Bim from work. At first he was always looking at me, then he started helping me out all the time then subtle flirting. The problem is how we know each other if he made a unwelcomed move it could ... (98 words)

Shall I tell her how I feel, or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3673 days ago

31 October 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - This is my first time even attempting something like this, so I'll try to make it brief! I have a very good Dutch female friend of mine who lives across the Channel in the Netherlands. I've known her for at least 2 years, ever since I was a student over there and she was dati... (471 words)

Normal for boyfriend to watch shemale porn ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3670 days ago

31 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently discovered on my boyfriends computer history that he has been watching shemale porn. To be honest I'm very disturbed by it , it had like ladyboy asain boys and guys with girls too but the girls wore strap ons. He had other porn like teen and lesbians as well . I ... (199 words)

My partner left me and is suffering with depression

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3673 days ago

31 October 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I could really do with somehelp and guidance.I was with my partner for 9 years and we have 2 children.I thought everything was fine until one day I came home from and said she does not love me anymore and that her head is a mess.She suffers with depression and has told me she ... (147 words)

How can I get my partner to drop his friends without making an ultimatum?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3673 days ago

31 October 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I don't like my partner's friends and it is pulling us apart. 18 months ago we made friends with a couple that live close by. The friendship began with dinner once a month at each others homes. After only meeting a handful of times my partner was asked by our new friends to be ... (249 words)

His ex best girl friend is back on the scene- should I be worried

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3673 days ago

31 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello people- another question for you. Been with my boyfriend now For a year and a couple of months- we live together at his mums house and are very happy until yesterday- he has a week of work (i don't) and he went to a shopping centre yesterday to do abit of xmas shopping... (190 words)

What did he mean by "to plant an intention"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3673 days ago

31 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Aunts, I met this guy through a mutual friend. He is smart, funny and very ambitious. He is 27 and is going to uni sometime soon. We both like eachother but I have my head on and I try to weigh any pros or cons before even starting a relationship with someone. Late... (118 words)

We're moving fast should I ask him for space?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3672 days ago

31 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and this guy have been speaking throughout this past summer via text. Hes funny and charming but hes quite flakey. We finally took things one step further and now we are dating but not official. The flakiness however is really making the spark and my opinion of him change... (287 words)

How do I get over fighting this feeling like I was wrong for leaving him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3673 days ago

31 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been broken up with my ex for a month now. I understand it hurts but am i supposed to feel like i am wrong? We were together 5 full years. Over the years he became unloving to me and made me feel like i was scum under his shoes but for some reason i kept clinging onto ... (100 words)

How do I get my girlfriend back so I can help her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3673 days ago

31 October 2014 (M)

age - My girlfriend and me are separated at the moment but am trying to get her back, I earn alot more money than her and all the time that we were together i tried to help her with money for which she would only refuse my offer of money and told me that she is not my problem and ... (264 words)

My mentally ill sister is preventing me from having a relationship with my parents

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3670 days ago

31 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I desperately need some advice, please please help me. My sister is mentally ill. Has been for over a decade. Her mental illness, which my parents have, till this day, chosen not to acknowledge, has destroyed my family. For the past decade, I've never had a ... (1042 words)

Is it wishful thinking or could my crush be gay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3671 days ago

31 October 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - So I'm bi but not out yet and there's this guy I've had a crush on for just over 3 years now. We started off as friends at uni, we met during the first week but had this instant connection, people described it as a bromance, we just clicked, and got on so well. As our fri... (459 words)