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writes:He's the outgoing and pretty nice type with everyone.And touchy too.We met in July in a summer camp where we stayed 2 weeks, though we go to the same school.I still don't know him that well, but I heard from others he treats girls in a pretty flirty way.During his dance classes he would go up to girls and play with their hair or playfully grab their chins/cheeks.I noticed sometimes he would do this to some girls he got along well with in the camp, but not with me.He tried once or twice.I thought he likes one of them, but I noticed he did this to our teacher too(they are relatives).All our group in camp thought he likes me and would often tease him about it, both boys and girls.Some guy even asked him if he's in love with me and told him to give me some space.Since he first started to talk to me he got closer to me and everyday he would almost always be near me.After we started talking he was like ''now I'll stick around you because you actually listen to me'' and then after a few days he became really touchy, he would often tickle me, playfully grab my hand, sometimes hug me, when in the sea he would always try to get me underwater(though he says he always liked to do this to girls) and our bodies were super close.Sometimes other girls would ask me if he kissed me there.One night he took my hand and kissed it.He would also tell me I'm beautiful, told me I look sexy a couple of times.Let me sleep on him when we returned to our country.He asked how my love life is a couple of days after we started talking and I tricked him into answering his question and the next day he opened the subject again and I didn't tell him and questioned his curiosity.Then he said he asks everyone this, but he didn't ask this other girls there.When I seemed upset he thought it has to do with him and would apologize.He told me my opinion matters to him, he told me he hopes he's not annoying me and hopes I don't talk to him just because he comes up to me.He also told me he thinks our age difference doesn't matter/is insignificant(I'm 17 he's 15 though later I felt he might have a problem with that).Lots of eye contact and smiles.Also noticed that he would have no problem getting close to me and flirting when others were around, but when it was just the two of us it's like he wasn't that playful anymore which is weird.But then again when someone confronted him that he likes me in public, when I was there too, he denied it always, saying he likes me just as a friend.And I would get defensive and say ''I don't care, it's his problem anyways.'' The next day after we got home he called me twice(we each received a list with the numbers of the kids in the group and he asked me for my number to make sure it's right) but we ended talking by the end of the week due to me.He confused me then as he brought up again the fact that ''x thinks there's smth romantic between us, but it's not like that.we're friends.right?'' and I didn't want to talk about that.He also omitted the fact that a girl from the group talked to him and he asked her about me.Then a couple of days later he texted me and I told him I'll go to the park and he wanted to come with me and we ended going together.We went as friends, he would sometimes tickle me and seemed interested in what I've been doing, what will do.Also saw/met his parents that were waiting for him.Then 2 days later he called me again,then I went abroad for 3 weeks.Exactly after 2 weeks I saw a missed call from him, then a couple of days he texted me saying we haven't talked in a while.Then I beeped him and he called me back, which was yesterday.Is he being truthful about us being just friends?Why didn't he keep in touch at all with other girls from our camp group with whom he got along if we are just friends?Does this still have potential, do we need more time to get things in place and get to know each other better?Could he think that I'm not interested due to age?
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