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reader, Sara_the_Slytherin  +, writes (26 October 2013):
 I am just trying to help... It's just that I sensed that you were suffering from an underlying self-esteem issue. I think that it would help to talk to someone, like a counselor. We all have flaws but that doesn't mean we're not lovable.
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reader, Sara_the_Slytherin +, writes (15 October 2013):
Men tend to be much more visually stimulated than women. It's a scientific fact.
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reader, Illithid +, writes (15 October 2013):
 Fantasies. Why do men like comic book movies? We like the fantasy of super powers and the unlimited importance they give the holder. Why do men like monster trucks? We like the fantasy of being able to drive over the other cars in our way? Why do men love porn? Fantasy. Not what they want out of a real relationship, not what they want an actual woman to be like, but it's a larger than life fantasy portrayal of sex distilled and exaggerated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMany thanks for your replys. It probably seems pathetic to some but I have been really quite hurt by this - low self esteem I guess. Probably doesn't help that I gave birth 5 months ago! :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2013): Because they are there. Why do women look at George Clooney and imagine balancing his check book?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2013): Some people have it worse. Apparently it has nothing to do with their partner. At least he looks at people that look like you. If he only looking I wouldn't be too bothered.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (14 October 2013):
Because its just about the cheapest and quickest way to stimulate your brain's pleasure center.
That's it. It has nothing to do with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2013): If it bothers you, then you do need to speak up. If you are not honest about it, eventually resentment will set in. It is then up to him to decide if you are important enough to find something else constructive to do with his boredom. It sounds like you have an open line of communication and that's a good thing.
Not all men look at porn or naked celebrities. I for one, have far too much going on in my every day life, an active sex life and children. There is no porn in our home. It's not something I need to do.
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reader, llifton +, writes (14 October 2013):
 Why let this bother you if it is in no way affecting your relationship? I'm a woman and I look at porn. My gf looks at porn too. Oh well. Its nothing.
he only does it occasionally. Why create a problem in a good healthy relationship?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (13 October 2013):
 Are you kidding????? Have you ever seen Sandra Bullock without her clothes on????? .... and you STILL think this question makes sense??????
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (13 October 2013):
 i'm sure you are all that but as a male I can tell you a man is always curious to see women naked. The female body is irresistable to look at. It is not personal as to whether or not he thinks the world of you. It's just natural. And no man I klnow of will ever stop being curious and arroused by other women. DNA? I don't know but like my dad once said if I'm not looking, I'm dead.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (13 October 2013):
 From a male's point of view, it's rather why not look at them? Your boyfriend could have this habit before meeting you, and that is not a good enough to stop looking at them. Although some men look at porn because their partners are rejecting them in the bedroom or won't act out certain fantasies or fetishes. Some are tired and want a quick release rather than do an hour long session starting with foreplay. Your boyfriend's reason is that he's bored, stressed and needs a break. He's not going to bug you every time he's horny so he would just take care of it himself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2013): I do look at attractive women, but they're usually models for the likes of Marks & Spencer, NEXT etc. or TV extras on extras agency sites rather than pornographic.
It is a discredited trope that "all men look at porn" (trope being a word for cliche in fiction).
Not all men look at pornography, some just look at attractive women
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