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writes:Hi. I only met this guy who is of the same age as me, [mod note; age 17] 2days ago. He was very kind, everyone seems to enjoy his company. Yesterday he asked for my phone no. and i gave it to him without any hesitation and anxiety. Later on that day he called me and told me how much he loves me and that i should give him a chance. I told him that its hard to believe what he says because we just met. He also suggested that we could be friends with benefits if im not ready to be in a relationship. Tomorrow im going to see him again. I don't know what to expect. Is it possible that a person can have strong feelings for some in such a short time?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2013): Saying I love you too soon is a sign maybe of desperation, and you want to believe him, but you have to think about yourself and how it will effect you in the long run. He is actually giving you an option friends with benefits. Who benefits from it, him? Well you have to tell him no especially if you don't have any of the same feelings. You really have to get to know someone before you can say I love you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2013): He dose not love you he just wants you to drop your panties!! And saying 'll love you'll is the easiest way to get a girl to do it.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (28 June 2013):
 I agree - it's not love, it's manipulation.
He wants sex and is hoping by telling you he LUVS you, you will comply.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (28 June 2013):
 No, it's unlikely that he's developed true, lasting feelings for you. Especially as he's already asked for sex.
I think unless you want casual sex that this guy has thrown up enough red flags to be removed from the game. Professing love after 2 day? That's a player move. Insisting you give him a chance? Another player move.
He's doing his very best to get you to have sex with him. He probably does the same thing with most of the attractive girls his age, so personally, I would decline the offer and wait for a better offer from a guy who isn't so over-the-top a player.
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