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writes:hello everyone.....I have a question which may sound silly but its really messing with my emotions right now.I met this guy we have been officially going out for nearly 2 months. I told him I loved him which I know I do so please don't say I cant do its too soon because I know I do.we see each other every day bar one...and I stay at his place once a month for a weekend. The thing is he said his falling for me but still hasn't said the !L! WORD. When we are apart I miss him so much and he says the same, he will randomly send me a text saying so too, so why wont he tell me he loves me? if I bring it up in conversation he says something like babe lets not go there...am I being silly should I let it be.? should I walk away. will he ever say it?
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (28 June 2013):
 Some men never say it, but it doen't mean they feel don't feel it.
If it's a really big issue for you and you are getting so worried over it maybe you should end the relationship and find someone who is more emotionally expressive.
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reader, oldbag +, writes (28 June 2013):
 Hi
If and when he loves you he will say it and show it with his actions towards you.
You haven't dated for long at all, just a few weeks, so he will be making his mind up still, getting to know you, enjoying the sex, your still in the 'honeymoon' period.
Don't tell him you love him, definately don't pressure him to tell you either or he will run. Just enjoy what you have and go with the flow.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2013): Its been almost three years for me no i love you :(
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (28 June 2013):
 Does he SHOW you he cares? It's ONLY been 2 months. JUST because you were/are ready to say the L word doesn't mean he is, but hopefully he is able to SHOW you for now.
And trying to goad or pressure him into saying isn't a good idea. Do you want him to say it JUST to please you (and shut you up about it) or because he means it?
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