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writes:Just asking knowledgable people's opinion. There are two girls i have an interest in. Both seem to be interested in me. One works in a shop I frequent and the other at a place of work I do deliveries to. I come to both these places at random. What is interesting, both these girls did the same thing which seemed to me a strong sign of interest. When I arrived, their hair was in a bun, but when I came back in one or two minutes, it was down to their shoulders. Another time one of them had their collar button done up, but the second time it was open and I could see her bra.Do you think I am putting too much thought into this, or is this signs of interest. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2013): OP here. Cindy Care, I agree it's not conclusive. But nothing other than actual dating is conclusive. It just looked to me as one of the signs of interest.... And gave me a little ego boost, lol.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (20 June 2013):
 The evidence is not conclusive . These girls might have wanted to impress you, or maybe they are just vain. Many women just tend authomatically to want to look at their best when there's a man around, it 's not even conscious. I know because... I am one.
I wear contact lenses for going out, at home I prefer my comfortable - and thick - eyeglasses.
Many times I caught myself whisking them off and sliding them discreetly in my pocket, if there's some mailman or delivery guy at the door. In some part of my brain there's , branded in letters of fire, " men don't make passes to girls who wear glasses ", and , even if I do not particularly want to seduce the pizza place boy,...still...:)
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (20 June 2013):
 In my opinion it is clear that they are wanting you to notice them, when a girl lets her hair down it is usually a sign that she is trying to impress someone especially if they have to keep it in a bun for work. However it could just be a case that the bun was uncomfortable. If you want to ask them out then do that and see how it goes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2013): If you noticed the difference and you didn't get the point; they certainly wasted their time. I guess they have to take off all their clothes and stand with a sign above their heads reading: "I'm available,notice me, talk to me."You're not really asking if they were showing signs of interest, are you?You don't know how to gather up the courage to approach either of them. You don't know what to say. You don't know how to acknowledge their obvious flirtations. *sigh!*Don't get out much, huh? You have a way with the ladies!Walk over and say hello. Strike up some small-talk and gently flirt. Wait for the reaction. If she gets all smiley and giddy, ask for her digits. Wait a day, and give her a call. Have something to say, and ask her out.I suggest you do this, one girl at a time. If shot down by one, go for the other. Don't try to be player. Sorry I can't be your wing-man.Good luck!
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