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male
age
36-40,
*daminio
writes:Am I just being played or am I clingy .Right I met this girl at work a month and half ago, she was new.. we got chatting on email and she seemed keen to meet up, she wanted to go a rave I was going to, I invited her but said we should go on a date first.. anyway day of the date she was ill all day apparently, so I went with my mate.Anyway still chatting to her, then said let's meet the next week, that day come and apparently her cousin was comin out of hospital. Day after I said I can't be aresed as it seems she doesn't wanna meet.. next thing she messages me sayin sorry, let's meet now or tomoz.. also she sent her mobile number.. so I said only if you wanna. ( she. Was a bit tipsy) Went and met her actually had fun, had a little kiss.. we seemed to get on really well. I take her back to hers kissed her night she said let's meet tomoz, I said ok.. even. got a txt sayin she loved the night.Next morning she says oh I was in hospital with a friend all night and she is ill, totally avoiding meeting up. I acted ok about it thinkin hmmm.. and no we aren't txtin as much. I'm playing cooler because I don't wanna look a Pratt.Now she had a 3 yr relationship end with him cheating and she has said she is scared of boys, and she said if she didn't like me, she wouldn't tell me a lot of stuff.. so I'm thinkin am I expecting too much or pushing her too much or does she like a few lads at once? I don't wanna message her again asking what's up because it looks. Bad. Thank you
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reader, adaminio +, writes (22 July 2013):
adaminio is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys for your help, back to the drawing board then lol
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reader, llifton  +, writes (19 July 2013):
 Sounds like she's playing. I wouldn't waste my time. I can't stand a flake.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2013): She's a flaky female and you're best to just let her go.
She is dorking you around. She makes up stories to ditch you, and is probably hanging out and doing something else. She isn't scared of boys and all that crap. She's just irresponsible and impulsive. She decides to do something else and plays you along.
Yes, you are being played; and you're clingy as well. You dismiss her bad manners, and she isn't really showing you respect. Nor is she showing any indication she wants to spend time with you. Even worse, her excuses are so lame.
She's treating you like a sucker.
She keeps you in her back pocket, in case she has nothing
better to do do.
My opinion, just tell her you've decided to move on.
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