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writes:I have been in a relationship with by boyfriend for three years now. I know for certain and without any doubts that I love him. We have been through so much together and have so many beautiful memories and I love him dearly. However, we have been in a long distance relationship since I moved a few states away a year ago. It has been very hard and stressful on our relationship. We have been through many ups and downs the past year, and have only seen each other a few times when I made visits back to my hometown. But in a few weeks I will be moving back close to him to finish school and we could not be more excited. But the past month or two have been probably the worst on our relationship. We fight over the smallest things, and when we fight they turn bad and we can fight about it for days! We barely get to talk to each other anymore due to our conflicting schedules, and there was even an episode when I thought he was cheating on me. It has been a rough road but we will be back together soon and I'm sure it will get easier. But my conflict is with another guy I work with. We have known each other for a while, but lately I have started feeling something towards him. I get butterflies when I think about him and we flirt a little when we're together. He is very respectful of the fact that I am in a serious relationship, but I am pretty sure he feels something towards me too. I know I shouldn't feel the way I do towards him since I have a boyfriend and I will be leaving soon, but I just can't help it. I feel more and more about him every time I'm with him and I know that I shouldn't. I think its just because I miss having my boyfriend around me all the time and I like having the attention from my friend from work, but I'm afraid my feelings won't go away and it will ruin what I have with my current man. My relationship with him hasn't been going well lately and my relationship with my friend from work has been getting stronger and I'm feeling the sparks between us. What should I do considering I am leaving soon? Thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2013): U shouldn't have feelings for someone else in the first place really. Don't mean that harsh. I was the same - in a relationship for 5 years and had feelings for someone else and I knew right then the relationship had to end because I shouldn't have those feelings in the first place xx
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