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writes:I want a normal life style but yah right! I'm not a normal kid like everybody else. My parents gave up on me! 7 years ago me and my brothers and sisters got taken away by foster care. I had to grow up fast and see and hear things that a lil one shouldn't. Thats why Im the way I am. I grew up way more than I had to decide I wanted to go back to that bad way of living. I was a smart a$$ kid for 10 years old to make my decides in life. So I did and now I had been though sh*t I thought it would be better. I feel like I been walked all over. They don't care how bout u feel. I want to run way from my madness! My real egg donor was never in my life and my dad was all the time working later but I knew why bc he's was messing around with others nasty girls when he had a girlfriend at house that was takin care of kids but she was really not nice to me or my bro. So now my brother knows what I had to go throw when I seen it all and heard it all to. I can't see or call my brothers and sisters. Now my foster house is not all that it's creaked up to be. I have this hate inside have no one on my side to talk and cry about! Trust problems .. Help please! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2013): Hi :)Sorry to hear you feeling down at the moment, thats natural with all you have been through ( thank goodness you are now away from all that trouble).Wow! you have the opportunity ahead of you now to LIVE YOUR DREAMS,you can grow into a beautiful young lady that can do anything.You know when you feel a bit down, do you do any sort of art? if not, you could try a bit of painting or dancing it really, really, helps to make us feel happier and positive. You are a smart kid, so ask for help,and help yourself, when you feel hate, dance it AWAY, paint it AWAY, sing it AWAY.Good luck with your future, you can NOW be whatever you want to be, not what others make you.Replace hate with LOVE, always :)even though it's hard, you can do it.
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reader, BellaBooboo +, writes (14 August 2013):
BellaBooboo is verified as being by the original poster of the question Ok thanks
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reader, sugarplum786  +, writes (13 August 2013):
 Honey, if you are in a stable foster care, ignore everything around you and use this as a means to better yourself, nothing is more powerful that getting an education and having your independence. Also not everything is greener on the other side. The biggest challenge is to work on yourself and do things to improve your situation. Some of the most successful; people are those that came from nothing. You need to believe it can be done.
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reader, BellaBooboo +, writes (12 August 2013):
BellaBooboo is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank u for helpin and making me realize what I have right in front of me for this life. If I decide to make the wrong or right to do it :)!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (12 August 2013):
 Call your High School and make an appointment with a counselor. They can help or find someone who can.
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reader, SensitiveBloke  +, writes (12 August 2013):
 It would be good if you could speak to a counsellor so you can tell someone just how you're feeling. They really care and will do everything they can to help.
Maybe your doctor could recommend one?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2013): Hi kid.
That's really bad. You know when I'm ready I would like to adopt a kid someday. but a baby one. not your age.
Anyway, I feel sorry about what happened to you. The good thing is you are aware of the wrong things going on in your life and your asking for help.
I think you need to talk to someone whom you can trust in person. maybe a relative or somebody who could really understand and support your needs.You know the world is full of bad people already.
Your still young. You are the future of his world. Don't waste it. You can still make your life better.
I know that how we brought up affects how we will become in the future, but you can decide to what is right.
Please always choose what is right. I hope you could find someone who can really help you, maybe a pastor or someone who will really care.
I will pray for you, pls pray too.
Have a faith.
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