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writes:So a few weeks ago, I confessed to one of my guy friends that I had feelings for him. He seemed stunned and told me that he did not want to jump into anything serious. So after getting rejected, I decided to distance myself from him and see other people. The more I pulled away, the more my guy friend tried to contact me. Well last week we started talking and flirting again. I reminded him that he rejected me just a few weeks ago. According to him, he did not reject me...but just was not sure. In a random turn of events, we ended up having sex multiple times. He stayed the night and stuck around for the better part of the day before heading home. He texted me after he got home, then later in the day... as well as everyday since. I am just unsure if this all means that he has now changed his mind
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2013): I'm sorry to tell you this but you are nothing more than a side dish for him. You made yourself vulnerable to him and gave in. Now he calls you for more.
Do leave him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2013): This guy really doesn't sound like a very savoury character at all- he rejected a relationship with you because now that he realises you have feelings for him, he's using that to get no- strings attached sex. He knows that if he leads you on by contacting you as though he's changed his mind, he can string you along... This is a fact. There's no mention of the status between you two, so for all you know he could well be stringing along others like this, probably is.
You deserve better, so don't lose any self respect to him, cos if you let him use you, you'll get hurt. " Iam here to help' summed it up perfectly to be Honest.
Take care xx :)
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