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writes:I have been with my current bf for two months. At the beginning (like two weeks), he usually wrote me like 5 texts per day and I liked it, we saw each other like 2 times per week and I thought the relationship was really great. After like two weeks he texted me less and less. Now he rarely text me (max one text per day sometimes not even this). I tried to text first but I get no answer usually. I tried to call two times (two times during this two months) when I knew he was at home but he didn't pick up (I wanted to know how he was because he was ill), now I don't feel like calling anymore. I have never blamed him because of this or complained. And I usually send max one text and if I don't get answer, I don't keep texting.I would be maybe ok with this if I knew he wouldn't be into texting. But when he is with me he constantly calls someone and text. Sometimes he calls his ex in front of me - she is his best friend. He has never called me.Is this normal? I would like to talk to him about this but I don't want to sound obsessive.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (22 April 2013):
 I would not consider him a boyfriend.
stop calling him
stop texting him
if you are the one going to see him stop going to him
stop making plans and asking to see him
and if you are having sex with him or being sexual in any way stop that too.
he's not that into you and he's possibly just using you till someone he likes better comes along.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (22 April 2013):
 No, it definitely is not normal.
He went out with you twice a week for two months and now it has basically dwindled down to nothing.
When people date, they are "trying out" potential partners to see if there is enough in common to form a good relationship - it's really not unlike interviewing/being interviewed by a prospective employer. The employer - and you - want to see if the job would be a good match......
Listen to what Jannipeg has told you! Good advice from her.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (21 April 2013):
 I can't even call him boyfriend. He's still into his ex. Maybe they are having an on and off relationship. He got what he wanted for you, which is a woman wanting to have a relationship with him, but not the actual reciprocal relationship. With this kind of treatment he does not deserve any "talk." You should just drop him forever and let him have a taste of his own medicine of being ignored.
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