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*cycoolx2
writes:I have made two posts about this girl before if you remember me. Doesn't matter though if you do. I am ashamed to say but I am obsessed over this one girl and I need to know of some tips to get rid of this feeling. So basically like a month ago I started having feelings for this girl. I mean really really strong feelings. Like infatuation feelings. I know now that was bad because she is in public school and I am not. I'm only 16 and I can't drive yet. (I know typical 16 year old post right?) Like I have said before I can only see her on sundays and youth events. I am not in a relationship with her. Oh and by the way last night she changed her relationship status to "so and so is in a relationship". -___- Oh and that night I had a dream about her and the youth at my church. Won't get into detail about that but as soon she left the scene, I woke up at 5:00 and I couldn't go back to sleep very well. Took me an hour to go back to sleep which is not normal for me. I never wake up in the middle of the night except when I have nightmares. This doesn't count as a nightmare though. Once I was awake my mind took over and I couldn't stop thinking about her. Thats bad. Losing sleep? and having dreams about her? Thats pretty sad I know. The internet is the only place I have shared this with. I have barely talked to her or interacted with her. But I know one thing I want this obsession to go away. Oh and I feel as though I have lost a little bit of my dignity. I know next week she and the youth are coming over to sleep over and that will be interesting. I need some advice on how to take back control of my mind, feelings, and thoughts. This dream is one of three dreams that I have had of her. If they continue then I know it is getting worse or at least isn't getting better.Please help!!! I am a desperate individual. Oh and I don't bombard with texts or anything.
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reader, Icycoolx2 +, writes (2 September 2012):
Icycoolx2 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI think these two answers might be exactly what you need.Hope this helps in your own situation?Icycoolx2 http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-stop-obsessing-and-wait-till-im.html#provide_answerhttp://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-this-girl-flirting-or-just-being-playful.html
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reader, Biffo  +, writes (1 September 2012):
Nothing wrong with dreaming and thinking about her. All quite healthy. The type of school she's at is also no barrier. Is she the same sort of age as you? If it was me I'd say or text something like:
"It's a shame you're in a relationship with 'insert name of youth' because I'd really like to take you to the cinema". Just see what her reaction is and you'll know if she likes you or not. It's best to know one way or the other. Best of Luck!
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reader, chaijam  +, writes (1 September 2012):
It's normal to have dreams about people you're interested in. As for getting over her, there's no miracle cure for it - just give it time. Keep yourself busy with hobbies or start talking to other girls who might interest you.
Don't stress too much about this. I wouldn't call it an 'obsession', give yourself a break :)
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reader, Abella +, writes (1 September 2012):
 Hi
do you want to make it easier for people to read your two earlier posts? Because you must have posted the other two as anonymous. And you must have not posted any follow ups to those questions as I checked out your site on DearCupid.org and there are no posts associated with your avatar of Icycoolx2
Can you help us out here pleass?
This questions is http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-back-and-still-in-need-of-help.html
Your other two questions wold also have their own unique URL too
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