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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: I've known this guy for about a year. I have a broken collarbone and I really wanted to get a photo taken with this particular guy. I told him to get on the other side of me that isn't sore and he smiled at me and said to me, "Is that your best side?". I then said, "No it's because of my collarbone" and he said, "Oh that's right yeah." After the photo was taken of us he said to me, "I'll heal ya" and then he did a cheeky grin and walked off. What did he mean by that? Today when I saw him, he smiled at me, he came over to me and asked me how I was. I got a photo taken with him but when I was calling someone to take it they mustn't have heard me so this guy asked me could he take it of us himself? I said that he could try it and he took the photo on my mobile phone. After he took the photo, he looked at the photo, smiled and said, "Beautiful". As I left him, he said to me, "Take care and be good". Does he fancy me? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2012): The comments on their own aren't enough to say whether he fancies you or himself (..."he looked at the photo, smiled and said, "Beautiful")
Think about how he makes you feel and how you feel about him.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan +, writes (1 September 2012):
There’s just not enough to go on here to answer that either way. When it comes to the comments people make, there is often a very fine line between friendliness and flirting. The fact is that everyone is different: some people would only speak like this if they were trying to flirt, but others would do this naturally as their way of being friendly. The important question is what do you feel for him? Is it worth letting him know if you do fancy him? If you don’t, just assume it’s friendliness unless you feel that his behaviour is becoming more obviously flirtatious. If you don’t fancy him, there’s no point in having that awkward conversation unless you know without a doubt that it’s become necessary.
I wish you all the very best.
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