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writes:So all my life, I have been pretty tamed(: I do my school work and get straight-A's (I'm planning on being a doctor). I am a senior this year, 17, and school starts in a couple of days. However, I am so not prepared because my mind is completely somewhere else. I met a guy, he's around 20, and I have a huge crush on him. I haven't had a crush in like two years, and haven't really had any boyfriends because I'm never felt inclined to. He, however, makes me feel so incredibly different. From the day I saw him, i changed. The thing is, he is kinda a skater boy..(like Avril Lavigne's song!) he isn't a bad boy, like he is caring and sweet. But I think he probably goes to parties, drinks, smokes weed, that kind of stuff. But I am soo attracted and interested in him. I have guys in the same "genre" at my school and I'm not attracted to them, so why him? He isn't gorgeous, in fact, he has a chipped tooth lol... But omg I swear it makes him even cuter. I just can't shake this guy! What I'm wondering is, should I take the chance with him? Since my heart feels so strongly about this, should I really try to get him? I would love to be with him... But I'm also worried about school. I'm sure I could balance things though. Will he be worth it? Should i go for it??
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2012): I know what it means. But i am being honest and based on my experience. Just dont prioritize him over school. You will find a different man. I get that. But if u take chances now, you are essentially killing your doctor ambitions .... Get into medical program and then see if u still like him ... If u like him still, go for him. But not before you get into the medical program. I understand that it is 5 years away ... but thats the best advice i can give!
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reader, maverick494 +, writes (2 September 2012):
Taking a chance is never wrong. Just stay sensible, (as you should be with every guy you date.) Don't get mixed up in his bad habits, don't get pregnant and don't prioritize him over school and future career ambitions. This sounds blunt, but these are the most common mistakes and often made by people who didn't think they would. Keep in mind: everyone in love is stupid; it's part of the condition.
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (1 September 2012):
 You need to definitely go for it. You like him quite a bit, you have posted 3 different questions about him. Go for it! What's the worst that could happen? If he turns out to be a "partier" or something that doesn't fit you then don't date him. But let him know how you feel, guys like a confident girl who isn't afraid to approach him.
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (1 September 2012):
Yeah go for it, who knows maybe you guys can bring out the best in each other. I think the fact he is older has a major part to play in all of this. Life is short so it's good to learn about relationships while you are still young, and who knows, this one could work out. Even if it doesn't, at least u wont regret it when you look back and ask yourself why you didn't take the chance.
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