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*heHelper96
writes:hello, i am kind of in an awkward situation again with a girl i have mentioned a few times on here before. me and her always talk and she has even shared a few secrets with me also we like gaming with each other sometimes, like minecraft and call of duty. anyway my friend has now come to the conclusion that i like her and he let slip to everyone and now they always say to me you want her and they have even put our names together to make one. it is really annoying because i didnt feel that way. this was about 3-4 weeks ago. but im starting to worry that im gradually getting feelings for her. i used to think of her as more of a sister but now im getting stronger feelings. my main concern is that she is 13 and i am 16 we have never met since she lives very far away but ever since we met we on xbox and started talking and gaming and i have sort come to know her better and we are really good friends. also about a week ago a random guy sent her a friend request and message on xbox live saying how old are you? and of course with out thinking i became very protective and i had a very heated argument who eventualy backed down and im guessing moved on the next girl because he sounded like he was in his 50's. also i would like to know is possible i could like a girl over the internet by talking on xbox, messaging and gaming? and not actualy know her.
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reader, TheHelper96 +, writes (2 September 2012):
TheHelper96 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hi, first of all thank you for reading and answering i really appreciate it. Secondly i don't know whether to tell her how i feel because of the 3 year age gap and because i don't want to lose her as a friend also its over the internet so theres a slim chance we will ever meet, also when my friends were teasing me and she was in our game at the time she seemed to be extremely annoyed at the fought of me liking her. I really don't want to lose her as a friend and i want to get to know her more but its difficult because i don't want to ruin our friendship. And she can be immature at times, i guess because of her age. Because it is over the internet how would i even go about telling her how i feel? For a start i can't say do you want to go out because that is not possible since it is over the internet so how would things actually change between us if something did happen? I will try to keep you and anyone else who looks at this informed
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reader, SassyElegancexoxo  +, writes (2 September 2012):
 That is very sweet. People get married over talking and connecting over the internet all the time. Some people have met soul mates over the internet. It is very clear you have strong feelings for her. When it came to the point of you being protective over her, definitely means you see her as girlfriend material. I guarantee, if she is communicating with you, enjoying your company, and playing these games with you a lot, that she has feelings for you. Some people say distance is good for their relationship, because they can get space from each other, and keep the relationship fresh. But it depends on what you prefer. If you have never been in a distance relationship, then you should definitely try it, because you will never know if distance is better for you. Good luck!
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