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*wuoha
writes:My girl friend is from a richer home than me.i'm broke she can't assist me financially.When ever we are out for an outing and we happen to get into one dissagreement or the other,she tends to talk too recklessly and shout at me on the top of her voice in the public. After all these she walks away, which is the one thing i hate the most.These makes me feel belittled.Should I stay friends with her? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2012): Why should she insist you financially, you are a man after all, not the other way around.
Noone should yell and scream in public, it has nothing to do with her being from richer home. Do you think that is the reason why she does it?
If that's the case, why are you still with her?
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reader, malvern  +, writes (26 October 2012):
 She's not a friend if she does this to you. People aren't stupid and they will notice her behaviour towards you. This will ultimately make her appear as a very bitchy person, so she's doing herself no favours. It's best to get friendly with other girls and move on.
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reader, Iwuoha +, writes (26 October 2012):
Iwuoha is verified as being by the original poster of the question A big thanks to you all for taking your time to read my question and and responded,may God grant you all peace in your relationships.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (26 October 2012):
 ... Why bother?.....
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reader, Abella +, writes (26 October 2012):
 Definitely not.
No matter who she thinks she is, no matter how arrogant and entitled she thinks she is, she has NO RIGHT to be so rude.
She is a BULLY and she may think she is "someone" because of her money and wealth she has access to, but in truth she is just a completely nasty rude woman with no manners.
Work out some legal and honorable hard-working ways to make more money. Only ever spend LESS than you earn. Pay off your debts as soon as you can.
But ditch this silly woman.
No one ever has the right to belittle people.
And if she claims to be your girlfriend then the way she behaves is NO WAY for any girl friend to behave.
Shouting in public and speaking rudely and arrogantly demonstrates that she is a woman who needs to learn some manners and respect for others.
Get your own finances in order and then look for a well
mannered respectful girl friend (who works and has a job) and who knows how to act like a lady and BE a lady - two things your current girlfriend knows nothing about.
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reader, sweetiebabes  +, writes (26 October 2012):
 I think it is best for you to stay away as she doesn't treat you good. Why do you want to be with someone who treats you less? Just walk away from this relationship and do not allow her to mistreat you. Do not allow anyone to shake your faith, your dignity and respect.
If you are staying in a relationship because she is richer in the society and you feel she can financially save you and the reasons why you put up with her misbehaviors then you are setting up yourself to failure and hurt.
Be a man and strive hard, work hard and commit yourself to gain financial stability. This way you can call it your own, your own fruit and no one else can take it away from you.
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