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What is the exact way to deal with people who are egotistical but don't express their emotions easily?

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Question - (26 October 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 27 October 2012)
A female Brazil age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay, it seems that Guys who have the following characteristics are Egotistical to the max.

Characteristics: Intelligent, Sophisticated, Reserved, Frank, Straightforward, Don't express emotions easily.

Ive seen that such people are not chest-beatingly arrogant, but express their arrogance in a subtle manner.

They usually have a very sharp yet subtle sense of being sarcastic.

They are internally snobbish and have a superiority complex.

What is the exact way to deal with people who are like this? They are easy to be attracted to, but SO DIFFICULT to adjust with because of their ego?

And you cannot reply them directly because of their subtle way of displaying it?

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A female reader, Candid Cally United States +, writes (27 October 2012):

I've dealt with guys like this. I usually just prepare myself for misogynistic comments and reply straight-forward both calmly and confidently. If they are too egotistical to try to see my side of the discussion, I ignore them.

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (26 October 2012):

chigirl agony auntYou ignore them.

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (26 October 2012):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntI would say that you are being 'way too "broad-brushed" in trying to label and pigeon-hole guys based on information or attributes that are not clearly related to your conclusions.....

Rather than spend your time and mental energy trying to find the "fit" (in to your label and pigeon-hole scheme) for a guy, how about just being friendly with him.... enjoying one-another's company.... and, if you and he seem to "hit it off," let nature take its course....

Good luck....

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