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writes:I split from my boyfriend 18 months ago and whilst we were going out he stopped me from talking to my friends and other boys. Since we split i've found it hard and awkward to talk to others and start conversations, how can i solve this? Reply to this Question
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reader, JaneSmith2012  +, writes (15 May 2012):
 In case you dont wanna hang out with a guy friend all of a sudden,preferably message a gal pal who was pretty close you before this relationship ("long time, wassup with you ?? " ).. Start talking to her and other gal pals slowly ...Once you guys are friendlier start hanging out with them ... Gradually start reviving your relationship with your other friends as well ... Ultimately you'll start losing your shyness and will interact normally with boys as well as girls like you used too ..Or if your old friends are a little difficult to please then you can always make new ones to help you come out of this awkward phase ... Join some activity or a club where you can meet new people and get rid of this temporary phobia of interaction...Lastly remember , nobody owns the other person in a relationship... Never ever let a boyfriend dictate terms to you in future ...You have a right to live your life the way it pleases you ... Good luck and hope you get your social life as you want it :)
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