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writes:I really need some help. My brother has separated with his wife and they have 2 children together. Recently my best friend has begun seeing him. Him being almost 35 and she's just 19. I know about it but no body else has copped on yet. Neither of them mentioned it to me. Ive seen texts on both of their phones planning nights etc. I dont know what to do but i have to stop it, its wrong on both parts and it isnt fair on anyone getting hurt. how should i confront them about this?
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (13 May 2012):
 She is a grown up, he is a grown up... As much as it would BUG me (if I were in your position) you are not the relationship police.
And someone will get hurt, not matter what you do or what you say :(
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (13 May 2012):
 You shouldn't confront them. It's none of your business and inserting yourself into other people's business generally doesn't end well.
It may not be the smartest thing to do, but technically they aren't doing anything wrong. And if it is a mistake it's theirs to make, not yours to meddle in.
Your brother is single and presumably your best friend is too. They're both adults. The fact that they haven't gone public yet doesn't mean they're up to no good. It just means that they'd rather keep it between themselves until they're ready for others to know.
Don't stress about it. It's their choice, so let them make it.
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