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26-29,
*onfusedflower
writes:Hey there, So me and this Guy started texting about a week ago and we talk everyday, i have only hung out wit him once and that was in January.. (long time i know) anyways.. im trying to figure out if he likes me, he isnt like the flirty type guy hes more serious and mature and not girl crazy like most guys i know. anyways 2 nights ago we were txting this is our convo (ill just call him GUY....Guy: so you got a guy? Me: No still waiting for the right guy to come along, I just get all the creeps asking me out. Guy: your a guy magnet then! Me: Yeah right! im so not! Guy: well if you get guys asking you out then yeah you are a freakin guy magnet Me; No im not, anyway i dont want to attract the creeps Guy: tWhat kind of guy do you want to attract? jist asking. Me: (to long to type and it dont matter) haha Guy: well i hope you find a guy... We talked longer, i asked him if he had a girl and he doesnt. but thats like the deepest covo we have had... i know its kinda hard to say if he likes me butttt just thought i would ask. Also the last time i saw him i was at this guys bday party whom i was kinda goin out with, and the whole time Guy was looking at me and hangin out with me. Any advice is great thank you! (sorry if it was confusing ) :P
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (12 May 2012):
 Call me dumb, but, if the last time you hung out was in January and now it's May - he can't like you that much , can he, regardless of flirting/ killing time on line.
Also , I find curious his comment to what kind of guy you like . It was the perfect opening for him to try and pull you in, and what he says ? " I hope you find a guy ". If he is interested, talk about shooting himself in his foot !
I know I know. You are 16, he's ( hopefully ) young too- maybe he is shy , goofy, has no experience, we can't expect him to be all smooth and glib etc.etc.
But, you know what ?, maybe it's me , with age I've become impatient, lol ! You are young and inexperienced too, why is it you that have to do all the detective work and pave him the way and serve him his chance on a silver platter ?:) Why do you have to be mommy arranging a playdate for her reluctant toddler ?
My guess is that he is lukewarm, in the off chance he is not and he's actually on fire but he just does not know how to show it- then he's a doofus, get yourself someone a little more clever and self confident !
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 May 2012):
 I think it could be possible that he wants to get to know you better. Plus him asking you are you with anyone is a good sign. If I were you I would just take things as they come and see what happens. Enjoy talking and getting to know him and just see how it develops. Good luck.
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