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anonymous
writes:I broke up with my boyfriend 2 months ago.We were dating for four months, the whole time we were together he told me how much he loved me, and how i changed his life. But then he started getting distant and i knew something was up, so i asked him about it and he said he was unsure about his feelings for me. So we decided to end it and just be friends.One thing you should know He's the flirty type of guy and is a total ladies man, and after we broke up he was going out with this new girl, which really hurt me because of how he said he loved me so much. Anyway my ex stopped texting me all together and well we just lost contact. But then two weeks ago my ex's best friend started texting me everyday and was flirty but not that flirty, and then my ex out of the blue started texting me again and was saying how much he missed me and that we need to hangout more, and said He's changed and " he loves me more then words can describe" and that he knows i still love him. So i guess what im trying to ask is, is my ex jealous? and does he not like seeing me talking to other guys specially his bestfriend? also the other girl he was kinda goin out with didnt work out, so i thought maybe im his back up girl? what do you thinkI am sorry if this made no sense at all!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2012): First, of all...it would be in your best interest not to go back out with him. If you do that opens up a door for him. In other words, If he can get you back then he knows he can always find a way back into your life. For him if one relationship doesnt work out, he will always have you to fall back on...His back up girl, don't let him treat you like that. Have some standards and respect about yourself. You can find someone better then him.
Second, I honestly believe that bestfriends are off limits. That is a sure fire way to ruin their relationship and to cause drama. And even though im saying this to you its nautral for you to go with your gut feeling and ressume talking to him..Its a bad idea. Find someone who can treat you better, you can do it (:
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 May 2012):
 If am honest with you I wouldn't trust a word this guy has to say. It sounds to me like he uses the love word just to get what he wants with girls. If he loved you that much he would never have doubted his feelings and went off with another girl. I think that yes he has found out you are texting his friend and he doesn't like it at all. He is single now again and trying to get your attention again to make himself feel good. He is very confident thinking you still love him. I think you should forget about him.
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