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anonymous
writes:I am a teacher at a primary school and I went out with a few work mates last night and we got drunk and I ended up having sex with the deputy head (hes 38) of the school. We both have feelings for each other but we decided a few months ago that we wouldn't act on them. But this morning we woke up and he turned round pulled me in for a hug and said 'morning beautiful. We had fun last night didn't we.' i agreed and he said 'I'd love to call you my girlfriend'. I smiled and gave him a kiss but I really don't know what to do. I really like him and he is a really lovely man but I'm not sure how it would be at work: will the staff gossip? Will it put strain on our relationship? I want to see how our relationship will grow but because he is my senior at work I don't want it to be awkward. Should we start a relationship and keep it a secret at work? We had a really good time and from what I remember and from photos taken he made it clear he still feels the same for me since we talked about it. I want to get with him but should i?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2012): Relationships with work colleagues are always tricky, however you have crossed a line by sleeping with him already. You were on a work night out so no doubt the others will know you went home together and will be gossiping already.
I suggest you two sit down and talk, when your sober, about where and how this should progress, if at all. If he is as keen as you say,he will be arranging to meet you and follow on from your night of passion very soon. Good Luck
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