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*avita123
writes:i have lovely husband but last month i met my boy friend after 25 years and i and slept with him, now i am feeling very much guilty, please tell me how do i cope now. Reply to this Question
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (13 May 2012):
Firstly, break off contact with the ex boyfriend. Secondly, figure out why you cheated. Was it just nostalgia for the past, or are there problems in your marriage you were looking to escape? Cheating and meeting up with exes aren’t the answers. Accept that this encounter was a mistake, and Concentrate on working at your marriage.
I wish you all the very best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2012): If it was some random guy, really stupid mistake, heat of the moment thing, I would say live with the guilt if you really love your husband and he loves you. But, only if you know you made a huge mistake and would need to spend the rest of your life being a great loving wife.
But, that is not the case here. You got back in touch with an old boyfriend on purpose, you had intent from the beggening and kept it from your husband, you planned it! So you need to tell your husband what you did and beg forgiveness hopefully you all can work things out.
In this case he deserves to know.
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