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36-40,
anonymous
writes:hey everyone im looking for a little advice here. i have a great bf and all is well. problem is im rather shy and hes asked me to talk dirty to him in bed (just every once in a while atleast).... iv never really done much talking at all in that situation never mind dirty. he has said if i really dont want to if it makes me feel uncomfortable then i dont have to. the thing is i do want to .... i just dont seem to know how to find the words. so i guess my question is wat do guys like to be told ? obv just a rough idea is wat im looking for. and also is there any way to feel less shy with this ? i know he thinks theres no reason for me to be shyy at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2012): I felt the exact same with my boyfriend at first but the more you do it the easier it becomes. Remember it's about having fun and probably a bit of a laugh together. The way I done it at first before I felt comfortable was, I told him what felt good and he did the same back. Then it just grew from there. Just give it a go and see what happens! Good luck! x
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reader, xgod  +, writes (13 May 2012):
 What you should do is ask him to write you a list of his favorite fantasy words you could say. Do not be put off if some of those dirty words or phrases is shocking and weird. We men have perpetually dirtier and dirtier minds as we grow older. If he watches any form of porn, ask him to write down the phrases he hears in those videos. Better yet, if you are not put off by the adult content, watch those videos yourself and get a sense of the way the woman in the video says it.What turns most men on are comments about depth or how good it feels (even if it hurts or you feel nothing at the time). Some men like to role-play a bit and pretend that they will breed you and you are fertile and you are not protected. The primal urge for most men is to procreate. As long as you are willing to try these things, be prepared by using protection (unless you are ready to be a mother).
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