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I'm too shy to ask for sex and can't even touch him.

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Question - (13 December 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 December 2012)
A female South Africa age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I'm too shy to communicate with my partner about everything, I can't open up, I'm always quite,even when I want sex is not easy to ask him, worse part of it I can't even touch him,and it really make me sad, what must I do ?

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A female reader, Hangin Philippines +, writes (17 December 2012):

Give him some "slight touches" first, like holding his hands,giving slight taps on his shoulder (since you're shy) until you get used to it! You will, of course at first, it's hard to do it frequently.. Then when you got used to it, try other things like kissing him, cuddling or hugging him.. Who knows, maybe he'll be the one who will ask you first if you want to do "it." But be careful though, don't look so desperate, slow things down, I know you will since you're shy like me. :) Goodluck!

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A female reader, Atsweet1 United States +, writes (14 December 2012):

Atsweet1 agony auntJust do it whats the worst that could happen. Most people dont turn down love making. Just do don't think about it do try to reinact it in your mind. That takes up valuable time.

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