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anonymous
writes:I just feel lost. Past year in my life had been so hard, last day of uni, my mother got ill. i was sole carer for my mother and brother, had just ended my long term r.ship with my b.f etc.Now uni is over, i've actually got a job. Mum is ok, we get support. But i just feel now that i need to live.A guy at work had been flirting and i had stupidly fallen for him only to find out he is married. Felt so hurt that now i'm trying to really just be professional.It's hard. It's hard to stop thinking oo will i look nice in this for him, to just not caring. you know when your trying to do right because not a home wrecker. same time he goes beyond his way to make you think he's seperated.Feel fed up, why can't i forget him? i've done girls nights out, family time everything. But i see him everyday and days i don't i miss him. argh
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2012): He doesn't wear a ring and has always made me assume he is seperated. But by the time i found out he isn't seperated, it just so hard to get him out of my mind
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reader, Atsweet1  +, writes (14 December 2012):
 When I was interested in a married ring wearing person I would look at that ring to deter my thoughts from going any further into fantasy land. If I get to fantasy land about them and me in special circumstance and special scenes I finish then go back to uumm they have ring on there taken off limits. I still believe I have chance with them even still but there married.
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