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writes:Okay, so I've been going out with this boy since August and it's been okay. I know that he loves me but I don't love him back I just really like and care for him. But, there's this other boy that I have liked for about 2 years and have recently started speaking to again but he doesn't like me- it's just me with the stupid crush. The problem is, I've been thinking about this other boy, who is completely my type- looks and personality wise, more than I think about my own boyfriend and lately my boyfriend has been questioning me about the other boy. I'm not sure if I should tell my boyfriend about my feelings for this other boy or just bury the feelings I have for the other boy and hope they go away? Thanks guys x
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (14 December 2012):
 you like him and care for him and don't love him.
that's ok. I hope you don't tell him you love him. that would be wrong.
I think that if you like someone else that much and don't love your boyfriend that maybe you should consider ending the relationship with your boyfriend. It will hurt him now. But the longer you stay together the more it will hurt him when you do leave (and you will leave eventually if you don't love him)
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reader, EbonyBlossom +, writes (14 December 2012):
 I wouldnt tell your boyfriend that you have feelings for the other guy, but you said you dont love your boyfriend, therefore I think you should be honest about your feelings for him and leave him.
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