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writes:I was with my friend 'A' shopping in town after a catch-up over lunch. I had to go to the fancy dress shop as I needed to get a whistle for my costume for a night out at the weekend. When we came out, I saw this gorgeous guy and A admitted she knew him and that he went to her uni (A and I both go to different universities but they're both in the same town. A's is amazing and is one of the best in the country whereas mine is pretty much average if not slightly below average. A and I knew each other from the age of 5 hence why we met for lunch and a shop as we're good friends!)She saw him out in a nightclub a few days after I said he was gorgeous and hot. They were both drunk, she went up to him and said "my friend L finds you so hot" she then set his alarm on his phone as my name "L" and when he was drunk he said he would stalk me on Facebook. Who knows if he actually stalked me, he probably woke up and was confused at a girls name being there!! Anyway, nothing happened from that incident.About 2 weeks later a few of my friends from uni and myself went to A's uni as the nights out there on a Saturday are much better than going into town. This time, this gorgeous guy wasn't there or A. I got really drunk for once in my life and when I'm drunk I can be over-friendly and generally make so much rubbish up. I started talking to this guy (J) who happened to be the gorgeous guys flatmate (this was literally by chance, I had no idea they were flatmates!) I asked if he would set us up and he said he would. I swapped numbers and Facebook names with J (while I was really drunk) and obviously at the time I was very happy.The next day I had a massive hangover (understandably) and remembered my incident with the gorgeous guys flatmate. I was hoping he would forget as I was so embarrassed and would have preferred A introducing us in a club. J seemingly didnt forget and he added me as a friend on Facebook the next morning and I accepted. He's probably shown gorgeous guy myself, but nothing has happened and I feel so embarrassed now especially after both these incidences.What shall I do? Add him as a friend on Facebook and appologise for these drunken antics?! Leave it and wait until I see him out (if ever?!!!!) please help me!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2012): Don't do anything...you already put yourself out there too much. You don't need to apologize for anything either. If he hasn't asked you out then it's because he's not interested! The more you stalk him, the more likely he is to not want to know you. He has your number, he's heard from people you like him, and he knows you want to be set up with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2012): iam sure , infact one hundred percent certain that i've seen you post before! gosh just leave it, don't add him on facebook.
play it cool,
jack
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reader, Lucky786 +, writes (19 April 2012):
 I think you need to stop drinking. These things that you find embarassing happened when you got drunk. Why not try meeting gorgeous guy when you're sober and away from alcohol?
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (19 April 2012):
 Leave it for now. If you met in person you can always apologize. (if the talk comes on the subject of drinking, that particular episode)
And by the way, TRY and stop making up stuff. Most people don't like it when people lie. And getting caught in a lie only leads to more lies.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (19 April 2012):
 I think you should just leave it for now and see if he gets in contact with you. Yes you where drunk and you are feeling embarrassed now, but at the end of the day you never done anything wrong so you have nothing to apologise for. You showed that you are interested in him that's all, so don't worry about it. If it ever comes up in conversation if you see him then you can say sorry you where drunk but if not then I would just forget about it.
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