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writes:I've known this girl for 2 years, and have had feelings for her for about as long. she is married and is planning on leaving her husband (not because of me.) and when she does she is going to be moving in with me and my brother. i told her that i had feelings for her a while back and she told me that she has the same feelings for me. we use to spend a lot of time together, going out places at night so we could talk away from everyone but now she doesnt spend as much time with me and she hangs out with my brother instead of me. When they go out places he makes sure to make it clear that im not invited by saying things like "will you give me a ride a few places, just the two of us" and hes taking her to the beach this weekend. when i talk to her she tells me she wants space and that it will be better for us in the long run if she has time to think. she says she loves me and still plans on moving in with us. my brother is making me move into the basement and giving her my groundfloor room (which i dont mind because i wouldnt want her to live in the spider infested basement.) kinda feels like im being removed and hes working his way into my place. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2010): Talk to your brother? He is obviously intresed in her and you need to confront him about what is he doing. Did he know that you are in love ?
He shouldn't act like he should and you need to remind him that.
Personaly if my brother was doing something like that he would have a big problem.
Out of curiosity how old is your brother?
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (1 June 2010):
 Did you talk to your brother about this?
It sounds like you are being used and the girl is playing along.
Good Luck!
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