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writes:Hey, I'm fed up of boys using me when they are bored. They give it all the sweet talk like " I really like you and couldn't imagine having this much fun with another girl" but when it come to it they never want a realtionship. This isn't the 1st time it has happened to me. I don't know what I'm doin wrong,is my appears make me look "too easy"? or is it the way I act as is they see me to much as a friend? but it's really depressing me now as i feel as i am going to be alone forever Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2010): I dont want to be rude but it might be that they don't find you physicly attractive or that you're not their type so they view you only as a good friend. If you find a guy that is attracted to you from the start you won't have the same problem but if they got you fixed as a friend from start it's kinda hard for them to convert to relationship
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reader, Iheartme  +, writes (31 May 2010):
Well, most likely it's the way you act.
I have a lot of guy friends who just like playing around with girls, some of the girls are aware of it but others aren't. It hurts me to see those girls heartbroken, but what can i say? the only thing i can do is tell my friend, and i know that he wouldn't listen. When a guy gets everything he wants from a girl, he most likely isn't gonna be with her. All my guy friends tell me, that if a guy wants to be serious with a girl they wouldn't do any of the touchy touchy or in most cases sex with their partner. If you give a guy what they want within the first month of just "checking" obviously they won't take the "fling" you guys have seriously. A guy would want to come to you more when you say No to the things he asks. And trust me you're not going to be alone forever... No body will be alone, there's someone out there just for you, but you haven't met them as yet.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (31 May 2010):
 You are going for the wrong type of guy. Find someone in a different setting, someone unlike the ones you usually meet up with. And make it clear from the beginning what you are looking for so only the ones who actually are interested go for it. And learn how to read the signs of a man who is not interested. After so many encounters you should recognize what they are by now.
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