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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hello, I'm in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. It's been about 9 months now. We hit it off last summer and things are going really well. But we said goodbye about 4 hours ago, because he'll be flying off to another country with his band to perform there. We Skype all the time, but now that he's gone I feel empty. I'm used to hearing his voice all the time and seeing him smile on webcam but now it's so quiet.And to top it off I have one last paper tomorrow and that's it for my exam! It's the toughest one because you know how it is, when you know you're reaching the end (and it's been 3 stressful weeks of exams, and he's always there making me smile) you just feel like everything's going to burst. I am so distracted and it's not helping with my studying. I tried showering, cleaning my room, eating and THEN back to studying but it's no use. Do you have any other suggestions? I miss him so much it's unfamiliar to me and I hope I can find a way to cope with it because we won't have the liberty to skype that much for another month since I'll be traveling around Europe with my family after my graduation - THEN see him!
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reader, Christinaa  +, writes (29 June 2010):
 i would say find a way to make contact with him but sometimes that just adds more fire to the flame. in this case meaning you'll just end up missing him more. Take some time to go out with the girls or something that will entertain you at the same time keep you occupied ya know?.
if that doesnt work your just gonna have to try your best to concentrate
if it helps make little encouragement notes to help you along the way or scare yourself into concentrating like if i dont study ill fail hope i helped
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