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writes:My fiancée that I am scheduled to marry within the next couple of months doesn't turn me on the way my exgirl friend use to. My exgirl who I was crazy about was always dripping wet for me day night early in morning and would have orgasms through intercourse almost at will and had rhythm like I could not believe. My fiancée wants to please me and I'm open but cannot have orgasms vaginally yet I don't mind oral, I just wish and have tried everything to get there. I do love her but am scared that it will be another frustrating life. Was married many years of complete loyalty but was unhappy sexually and got involved with girlfriend who knocked socks off in bed. Why I am not with her family acceptance because bitter divorce. Good woman who I don't want to put through much crap but she loves me anyway. Fiancée loves me very much and I enjoy her but this get me. Just want some thoughts...
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2010): I had to look twice to see your age you mind is functiioning on the level of a boy of 13. Just a thought - 70% of women ca not orgasm with vaginal sex. So if she has cliteral orgasm the she is normal and is not likely to get vaginal orgasm. So trying to make her is a waste of time. Your ex gf was unusual all women are different though you have to find out what works for each women. Do you think that your sexual problems with your wife was due to your lack of understanding of female sexuality?
Get a book or two on female sexuality it's amazing so many men are cluless. If you want satisfying sex with this woman, do the loving thing forget the other woman and concentrate on the one you are with.
If you were so turned on by your ex why are you not with her. You choose this lady it is foolish and unloving to compare her to an ex. You're talking like a teenaged boy. Concertrate your mind and efforts on what you have - think about all the things she does, then think of being without her. You may lose her and any chance of happy. Your chances of ending up in a sexless marriage is high if you don't change your attitude.
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