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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:I met ran into an old friend that I picked up in a bar and we had sex. I am not in a position to have a relationship. I travel all over the US for work, and communicated this to him. He made sure to get my phone number. He texed me 30 minutes after I dropped him off, stating he had a great time. How do I make this into a booty call relationship? Do I have to wait for him to contact me, or can I text him the day before I come to town to see if he wants to hook up? I really enjoyed our sexual encounter. I had not had sex for 6 years. I don't want to do that again. I am going out of town for 2 weeks then coming back again for a couple of days then I will be gone for 3 months. Please any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (1 June 2010):
 Text him back and tell him you will give him a call next time you're in town. And then it should have been established. No more contact until you are ready for sex with him again. And make sure that when you are with him you do not discuss too much of your personal life, he is not a boyfriend or friend, just keep it to the sex.
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reader, TimmD +, writes (1 June 2010):
 I suggest just being honest with him. Text him and say you're going to be out of town but back in two weeks and you want to know if you can meet up before going away again. Just make sure you don't lead him on in any way thinking you want more. It could work, but you just have to understand that eventually he may not like this being a one-sided booty call relationship. Since you are out of town so much it is almost impossible for him to call you when he wants it.
As I said, just try being honest. If you both are on the same page 100% than it could be exactly the relationship you are looking for.
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