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writes:i was seeing a guy for 5 months, he text me every day from his holiday he and every day morning and night whilst he was away he decided to tell me he had fallen in love with me and when i asked why he said he felt something was missing and that was me. text me love you darlin every day. he came home last wednesday i picked him up from the airport everything fine, he had his daughter thurday and friday spoke every day love you every day, then on the saturday same... he text me love like normal spoke he was meant to cum down and didn't show, i texed him you leaving tonight he texed thats ok . i text back what is and i have not heard a thing since. called him texed him and nothing back. could anybody think of what he may have been thinking in his mind it is so odd why tell me he loves me?
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reader, Odds  +, writes (1 June 2010):
 Assume, for the sake of this post, that he is single. If not, you are the mistress, and must deal with that seperately.Love is very difficult for guys to express. It is vulnerability. The hardest part is not saying it, but dealing with the aftermath.His behavior has been very lovey-dovey, very feminine. He probably just realized this, and now has to regain some masculine cred in his own mind. Expect him to act a little more distant, but still want sex. Oblige him, so he knows he hasn't made himself seem like a wuss to you.Additionally, if he has a daughter that's not yours, it means he has been *burned* before. Either by a divorce, which is legalized robbery and character assassination, or by an ex girlfriend who he knocked up and who decided to keep the baby, which would have been similarly stressful.Let me emphasize that. *BURNED*. He will be very careful about you, and is probably trying to figure out exactly what he has to do to keep you. His past screwup means that he does not believe he knows the correct way to do that.So, let him know you don't think less of him, and that you love him right back. He needs to feel that you won't break his heart. Until then, he won't give it away freely.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 June 2010):
Are you sure he's single? Sounds very suspicious to me.
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