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*oveflower
writes:im 19 and in my first ever relationship. my boyfriend always says sexy stuff to me and i never know what to say back. i look like an idiot and he gets a bit annoyed that he's the one that always does the talking in terms of sex. when he asks what i want him to do, i never know what to say. any advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, chipmunk37 +, writes (17 October 2015):
 Most of the time it is not what you say but how you say it. Use soft sultry tones, talk a little slower in a husky whisper.
What do you want me to do?
I want you to touch me...all over.
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reader, antwone fisher +, writes (5 June 2010):
if he says sexy stuff, blush and look away, guys like that as well as always question him if he says 'you smell like roses' reply back 'how do i'. if he says 'i cant live without you' say 'why cant you'. small things like that will build up your confidence.
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reader, Odds  +, writes (1 June 2010):
 Are you sleeping with him? If so, follow the next two lines of advice:
Practice this line in front of the mirror: "I don't know... but I can learn." [sexy smile]
Play up the innocent routine. End these conversations early and get a practical demonstration.
Are you a virgin? If so, do NOT seek out porn as your inspiration; nothing those girls say will endear you to him. Also do not seek advice from your slutty girlfriends or your gay friends. Straight male friends can offer solid responses to specific sexy talk, but understand that they might get the wrong impression and think you're seducing them.
Turn sexy talk into either dirty jokes or a learning experience, depending on his tone.
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reader, heaven= +, writes (1 June 2010):
tell him thaat your sorry you have nothing back to say because that is your first relation ship..make it clear to him that you at times have no clue what to say back to him
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