A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:i have been talking to a guy for two years now and we got on from the start,i really like him and have done since i first started talking to him.he says we have a special friendship as we have been intimate over the phone and i have told him i really like him and that i see him as an ideal life partner,he told me when we first started talking that he is not ready for a relationship coz of what happened in his previous marriage.at the time i told him i understand and said i will wait till he is ready,two years on he is still giving me the same excuse infact now he says he has got pressures on his head like debts,mortgage etc.i said all that is part of life,atleast give me a chance?he turn round and said i didnt ask you to wait for me.why wont hegive me a chance?
View related questions:
debt Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT +, writes (29 September 2007):
 Hi there darling,
Sorry move on if he is not ready for a relationship and you are stop wasting your time on him find someone who will love you darling your worth that to yourself babes xxx
A
male
reader, rcn  +, writes (29 September 2007):
 Two comments to look at (1) special kind of friends. (2) I didn't ask you to wait for me.
I don't think he's ready for a relationship. I don't even know if he's considering a relationship any time soon. I didn't ask you to wait for me is saying, you're potentially crossing the friendship barrier he has in place.
Special kind of friends (2) This is a comment people make when their looking at beings with the person on a friends with benefits level.
...............................
|
