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anonymous
writes:Dear cupid,I have been married for a month now my wife came to me and said she had caught an std and the way she said it was like she was blaming me i have not been with any other women and she claims she hasn't been with any other men i think she's trying to use reverse pychology, what should i do.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (30 September 2007):
 Is this for real?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSince you feel the need to speak with strangers ans on the internet no less, rather than your wife- end it! from YOUR WIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, Oblivia  +, writes (29 September 2007):
 It is possible she got it much earlier and just didn't know about it until now. Some std:s take very long time until they show symptoms. Many people jump to conclusions and believe their partner must have been cheating when in fact the desease has been there for much longer than the relationship. Test yourself and play safe until she is cured.Take care.
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reader, rcn +, writes (29 September 2007):
 I'd ask her, if you haven't been with anyone other men, than where do you believe you contracted this std.
Did she say she "caught" an std, or you "gave" me an std. If someone has a cold, and then we catch the cold we usually state "I've caught your cold".
The way to stop the reverse, is to stop it right there. I wouldn't even let the sentence be finished, right as soon as the blame begins stop her "No, didn't happen, but feel free to try again."
One other way to do it is. "This conversation is over, we're not getting anywhere, I'll be in this other room, come see me when you are ready to get down to the truth."
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reader, leanne.od  +, writes (29 September 2007):
 it depends what std she has. there are some which can be caught without having affairs.
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