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*loud_Strife
writes:Confused about a girl.Ok we'll theres this girl I saw today in my gym class and as soon as I saw her I was like OMG, she was like the prettiest girl I have ever seen. I am very into vampires, and lets just say she looked like a slightly darker Kate Beckinsale from Underworld lol. I told my friend what I thought he and was like go talk to her and stuff, but I got so nervous I almost didn't do it. When I first decided to, the teacher came and stood near her, so I couldn't go near her, and the next incident she was so busy and looked happy talking to her friends, I didn't want to interrupt. Then it was time to get changed and get ready for lunch, after I got changed, I was sort of mad I didn't get to talk to her, but then I saw her waiting near the exit I take alone. I decided to go up and start a conversation, my dumb self was like Hi, have you ever seen Underworld? She responded no, then I asked her if she was familiar with the actress Kate Beckinsale and she responded no again. I said oh, we'll you look like her, then she smiled, and I said don't worry its a compliment. Then I started asking other questions like does your teacher care if you get changed or not (they have that rule for gym) and stuff, she just kept smiling and nodding, but she was blushing, I saw her cheeks turn pinkish. The conversation seemed extremely awkward and the last things I asked her was, are you in a magnet (like a major for Highschool) and she nodded yes, then I asked which magnet was she in, and she replied what (I don't think she heard me) then I repeated it, and she was like nothing. She was probably very nervous but smiled in a shy/flattered looking way. She seemed like a quiet girl where no guy would notice her. After that I just bailed and was like um I'll see ya later, and retreated to my friends, and just felt bad because it was so weird. Then I was at the cafe and I was sitting down looking at the entrance when she came through and we both made eye contact, and I looked away back at my food, and a few seconds later I looked back and saw her telling her friend something and then her friend started moving her head looking everywhere until she saw me and turned back to talk to the girl. I'm guessing she told her friend about me or something. The problem I have is that I'm not sure if I should keep talking to her, because it seems so awkward and I wouldn't want someone to feel uncomfortable with talking to me. Also, shes normally with her friends in class, and I really don't like striking up a conversation with an audience. I'm so confused lol, can someone help? Thank you!
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reader, Dr T  +, writes (3 November 2007):
win some you lose some. She sounds a bit off bro. Plenty more fish in the sea, you sound like a good, outgoing kind of guy, you will have plenty of other girls.
Enjoy
Dr T
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reader, Cloud_Strife +, writes (5 October 2007):
Cloud_Strife is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBleh, I don't understand her lol, I talked to her, introduced my self, but she never responded, her friend tapped her to tell her I'm talking to her, but she still didn't respond, I asked her if she was a sophomore to bring up a conversation on the test they have the next day, but she either told me to shut up, or she said senior. I have no idea, all I know I just told her we'll I came here to try and talk to you, but obviously thats not working, so I'm just going to leave. I'm done with it lol, but thanks for the help.
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reader, Dr T +, writes (5 October 2007):
so bro..how did it go?
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reader, Cloud_Strife +, writes (30 September 2007):
Cloud_Strife is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk tomorrow is Monday, and I'll have to face her lol, But I'm so nervous still, what if she doesn't reply as much as I am hoping, and the conversation goes down hill? Plus its bothering me so much, it's all I'm thinking about, how to approach this situation.
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reader, Ms.Sweet dreams  +, writes (29 September 2007):
 its a part of love life that u will hurt at the 1st time but don't look for the future and the past the important is u know how to love forget the past, go to the flow of the present and at the future it will end up in a happily ever after.... so.... cheer up..... don't lose hope...
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reader, Cloud_Strife +, writes (29 September 2007):
Cloud_Strife is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks, I could use all the help I can get, and also I don't have a gf, and never did, the past relationships where I had liked someone always ended bad.
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reader, Ms.Sweet dreams +, writes (29 September 2007):
well as long as u you like her and you are not commited to your gf then just go on don't be shy be a man. a shy type girl is just a few in your country. if she get a chance to know u she will change a lot coz u can help her to build her self confidence. i know she can learn to love u. so dont give up... goodluck!!!
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reader, Dr T +, writes (29 September 2007):
sounds like she is shy Bro... if you like her dont give up on it... if she is shy she will appreciate that you do like her by your presistence in starting a conversation with her... maybe get her out of the school environment to a neutral place like the coffee shop.
Then see if she is your kinda girl, if not you both got a new friend.. win/win situation
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