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I can talk with any guy, unless he is my crush; then I become shy. Advice, anyone?

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Question - (29 September 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 12 October 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I like this guy... but.. I barely talk to him. I feel sooo shy when I am in his presence. I'm like, "WTF is wrong with me?"

I basically can talk to any guy, unless he is my crush.

I think he likes me back, because he is also shy around me.

Once, there was a time when he put his arms around me.

Maybe it was a joke or something...

But I was like...

"Omg"

And when I would look at him, he would look at me back

Argh. I keep telling myself to tell him that I like him, but I can't.

Can someone advise me?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2007):

OMG same here,

i have the same problem my crush is always contenstly fixing his hair and shirts and kinda walking away, but sometimes he can be totally with me. I know exactly how you feel!!! Sometimes ppl can;t give good adivce so....

Walk up to his "group of friends" at a hang out or wherever but not generally to him (do it with a friend) and bot just say hi.... whatever there talking bout act pro totally ignore him not a long time but a little (or he'll leave!!) And go "O hey _ " or have ur friend go "o look there's _" and that will make it look like u hae to say hi.

Look ur best and make sure to just be urself but act cool!!! thats a start from there it up to u!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2007):

Thank you people for the advice.

I will try to tell him=)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2007):

I have the same problem! Yes, it's hard to talk to your crushes, but you won't go anywhere if you don't do anything. Start with simple things, like saying hi or flirt with him.

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (29 September 2007):

When he hugs you or does something you like tell him so.

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A female reader, Ms.Sweet dreams Philippines +, writes (29 September 2007):

Ms.Sweet dreams agony auntdon't be so shy speak up tell what is ur feelings to him and im sure he will understand ur feelings and in the end he will tell to u that he likes u too. and u have same feelings that u have. but girl don't expect too much coz the opposite of this he will just want u to be his friend but its good thing coz lovers start from friendship. so cheers.....

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