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Will his girlfriends think I'm immature?

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Question - (29 September 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 1 October 2007)
A female Canada age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi everyone,

I'm in an age gap relationship. I am 18, and my boyfriend is in his 20s.

Everything is wonderful so far, we've been dating for about 7 months. I've met his family, he's met mine, he's met my friends, everyone gets along, wonderful.

Due to distance, I've not met his friends yet. And I'm going to very soon.

I'm just really worried about the age thing. His friends are different than mine. He has a few married friends. I'm not so scared about meeting the guys, I've talked to a few of them and they seem cool. I'm worried about meeting his female friends. There's a bit difference between an 18 year old "woman" and these women in their 20s and I'm worried about seeming really young and immature compared to them.

Maybe this is stupid but I don't want to come across as some silly little girl or something. I don't know, I worry a lot.

Any advice?

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A female reader, sexi South Africa +, writes (1 October 2007):

sexi agony auntHi

I am in a relationship and im 19 and my bf is 30. I have met some of his friends and they are all married except for me and him. Dont worry about everyone. Just be yourself and be friendly. Good Luck,

Regards,mail me if you wanna talk

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (1 October 2007):

The age difference is not significant. Don't worry about it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2007):

Just be yourself is OK. I agree with flower girl. The age difference is not the problem, you can be their friend too. Also, check out a great relationship support site-Agematch.com, may be you can get some other good advices.

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A female reader, flower girl United Kingdom +, writes (29 September 2007):

flower girl agony auntI was i the same situation when i met my husband, i was 16 he was 20 and i was nervous as hell about meeting his friends and most of them were in their twenties some pushing on thirty.

They were all however fantastic, i was just myself with the attitude if they don't like me it's their loss, i've known them now for thirteen years and a couple of the girls are like my sisters now.

Just be yourself i'm sure they will love you as much as your boyfriend does and there is hardly any difference in the age group so don't worry about that.

Take care.xx.

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