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*ZIM ALI KHAN
writes:hey frnds ! i wanna know how to make a girl ready for sex???i need to have sex but my girlfriend is never ready to do so!!i can't controle it....i need to have sex...plzzz help me out!!!!!!!thanxxxxxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2008): i got 2 words for you
JUST WAIT!
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reader, xhailofbulletsx  +, writes (10 November 2008):
 If she isn't ready, then you have to respect that. If you care about her you will wait until she IS ready, and it will be even better then because it wont be rushed.
You CAN control your "urges". It's possible. However, if you feel you absolutely need sex, why not try asking for oral? She may not be ready for intercourse, but oral sex has nothing to do with virginity. But, you can't ask her to give you oral and not give her anything in return. You have to return the favour, of course!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2008): Everyone that gave you answers so far have valid points...but I'll tell you the truth. Yea, there is a way. A right way, and a wrong way. The right way? Stay with her, be faithful to her and treat her right, and be patient until she's ready. If you honestly love her, tell her. If you do this, it wont guarantee it anytime soon, but it may make her ready.
The wrong way, is to lie about all this to her to make her think about you care about her. But let me tell you personally, I have done this and regretted it the from the day after till this day. The girl I'm dating now, I actually love and wish I would have waited for. Sex really is overrated. At least...for a girl I didn't love it was. I imagine when I have sex with the girl I'm dating now, it will be much better because I'm actually in love with her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2007): dude, not cool.
my girlfriend isnt ready to have sex with me, i really want to, but she doesn't yet, but do you see me pressurizing her into it ? if you knew me you'd know that i don't...and i wont ever.
i love her & i'd wait years just to have sex with her...dude sex isnt like breathing...you don't need to have sex. it sounds like you liked her but never thought she wouldn't be used to sex, if you truly like her then you'll just bare the urge and wait just that bit longer, i'm sure it will be worth it.
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reader, Uncle Trev  +, writes (30 September 2007):
OMG are you for real?
If you want a girl just for sex have you thought of visiting a prostitute. If you are so desperate for sex many towns in india have it available for a mere couple of hundred rupees. The places that sell sex are there for people like you who do not understand what makes a real girl tick.
The best sex is a bye-product of love. It is when two people who love each other dearly get as close as they can to each other. But then again Love is something you know nothing about whatsoever. You prove this so well in your question where in a mere 40 words you mention sex three times and need twice yet the words like "feelings - love - passion - warmth - affection - trust - kindness - attraction" are not seen there at all.
Forget your girlfriend - if she is worth anything she will not submit to your demands - she is after all her own person and not your slave.
I suggest you go to your local brothel where you may get some of the testosterone out of your system, then there just might be a chance you may become a human being again.
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reader, penta  +, writes (30 September 2007):
 You're not an animal. You CAN control it. Your hands are right there if you need some release. Don't put this on your girlfriend.
If you force her to start before you're ready, you are much less a man than you give yourself credit for. Her body, her rules. Get used to it. Waiting until she's ready is SO worth it, for both of you.
If I were counseling her, I'd tell her that any man who couldn't wait until she was ready was not worth her time and she should leave him. Don't be that guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2007): hey, you may be in a hurry, and eventually she might give into it and feel forced if you say you might end things with her. But be wary if this happens and she feels she has to, and you eventually have sex...because she might later realise she was pressured and blame you for rape. And trust me, you dnt wana be in that situation. Like they said, if you cant control yourself, find someone else, or masturbate!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2007): no there sin't and don't even think about trying to rush her or force her, if you deeply love her with everything you've got u'll wait for her even if it means years you should be concentring on being with her not the sex. I understand that men do need sex some more than others but can't you just masturbate but surely your heart would tell you that you wouldn't want her to feel unloved and loose her just because you want sex. Is she a virgin? She maybe scared tell her that you don't have to do anything until shes ready and not a moment before with that don't in anyway hint it or make her think its gonna happen and she'll feel more comfortable with you and that will help when she does decide shes ready. gd luck
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (29 September 2007):
 look you cant make a girl ready for sex. You have to wait for her to be ready in her own time.
If you really need it that badly find another girlfriend if your this impatient, as she shouldnt be forced into having sex before shes ready.
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