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writes:hi ive been getting kind of annoyed lately because in bed it seems as if im always doing all the work. I mean its fine to do it sometimes but I would like to get some pleasure back. Really hard to explain. but i dont know what to do. can someone help? Reply to this Question
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reader, m698778  +, writes (1 June 2007):
well, it seems that your partner is very insecure about himself during sex. he's probably worried and concerned on how you might think if he pleasures back to you. he might be concerned on how he's doing it so therefore, he wants you to give him the pleasure instead. so talk about this with your partner and help him come in to terms it's okay! practice makes perfect!!!
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reader, kenny  +, writes (31 May 2007):
 You have got to talk to him and tell him that you have needs too, and that its not fair that you do all the work. Its easy sometimes for people to fall into a pattern and become complacent. Enphasize that you are a couple, and that in a relationship its give and take.
All the best x
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reader, love-him +, writes (31 May 2007):
 hia babe talk to him, its all very well u satisfyin u in the bed but you need satisfyin ur self, not ina cheeky way just drop it carefully into the convo sayin u dont wanan be the one doin all the work.. if he doesnt understand refuse until he does, =] hope i helped mail me if u wana talk x x x
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reader, candy00s +, writes (31 May 2007):
 Sounds like you partner is lazy in bed! not good!
Talk about it explain that you feel like you are doing all the work!
He has to consider your needs too not just take.
xxx
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