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writes:hey girls id like your opinion.How would you react if your new boyfriend told you his last girlfriend had "a lovely big pair of tits"sorry to use this kind of language- these are his words not mine Reply to this Question
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reader, girlygirl +, writes (6 June 2007):
Aw, hun. I wouldn't worry. That just guy talk for ya. He probably didn't mean anything by it.I work with 12 guys, most of which are married or taken, and they talk about girls "tits" all the time - doesn't mean anything, hun. =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2007): Well in my case, it was true.
His ex girl had a handful to die for, but honestly i dont care.
I am confident in myself to know he loves me. Just because he is with me i dont feel the need for him to think i am perfect and that i am the only one. I also know he is a man and will look at a nice pair. I have talked about it with him about his exs breasts out of curiousity.
As long as he is not obsessive over his exs tits he is just being honest with you and it is his opinion. Dont take it either that he is saying yours are not. Honestly i hate guys who tell you things just cause you want to hear them. I like them to be bluntly honest He said his ex had nice breasts but they hurt her back, my waist is smaller and i have more of an ass. I know he loves me but i generally accept that other girls he has been with are each different and i dont feel intimidated by them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questiongood point guys-
we just happened to be talking about the girl in general when he told me this- he even did hand gestures and everything.
he also told me he had had a threesome after about 4 days of being with him.
the way i felt was-" why did you need to tell me that- that is NOT something i need to know"
he is a jerk and im going to get rid
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2007): I have huge tits, and I would be really pissed if my boyfriend said that about another girl. That is rude & disrespectful as hell. Would you say to him "my ex boyfriend has a huge dick"?? It's the same thing.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (1 June 2007):
 It depends on the conversation. If you were talking about stuff like that then you get what you get. I'm sure he didn't just blurt it out. Tits are tits, who cares. Maybe they were nice. Maybe he likes yours too. It was a stupid comment if he was trying to bother you but if you guys were on the topic....who knows. It REALLY depends on how you got on that topic and if you or he are insecure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2007): personally, since i've got small boobs, i'd be offended... what was your immediate thought when he said it? did it bother you? if it didnt, then don't sweat it, maybe ask him what he thinks of yours? if he said it as if yours werent comparable, then i'd be pissed!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2007): First of all he should not be comparing you both. He has no right telling you that because that is disrespectful to you. I would think twice about having him as my boyfriend. I would say....RUN as fast as you can. There will always be someone out there who would love you and cherish you as you are. He is a jerk I am sorry to say.Good luck sweetheart
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