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writes:dear cupid,i used to really like this lad x we used to be really close we were sorta seeing each other but had to keep it a secert becasue our friends didnt get along and forbidded us from seeing each other we kissed and i wanked him off and he gave me a love bite and cuddled alot and i reali did think i was fallin in love with him, but then he hurt me so i finshed seeing him i tryed to get over him sooo bad i tryed to stop thinkin bout him and not flirt with him but then he asked me to meet up i thoguht he was gonna apoligize i went to meet him with the intentions of telling him off bout wat he had dun. i told him how he has hurt me he said he didnt mean to and told me he wnted to spend the rest of his life with me.He can always charm me back round his side and tht night we ended up kissing. but then the next day he wont talk to me so i try and get over him again and forget about him but thn last night he starts talking to me on msn and twists me round by complimenting me and telling me how much he misses me, and now he wants to cum round my house whn my mum goes away for a week, i reali cant resist his charms and i feel like im gonna break dwn and do sumthin im reali gonna regret like have sex with him when i know its reali not right. i need to get over him and forget bout him but i deep dwn dont want to i reali want to be with him, but he has hurt me how can i forget about him and move on?? he is a big part of my life and i do still have deep feelings for him...im sorry this is so long but u need the full story to reali understand any help will be great because my mum goes away in 8 days and i need to be strong but cant...thank u
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reader, Royofthe Rovers +, writes (1 June 2007):
 You have already done the hard part yourself. Realising how he is using you to get one thing, the next thing to do is to act on it.
Ideally you need to break contact from him totally to give yourself the space you need to recover from your feelings. You know how "charming" he can be and certainly seems to know what buttons to press so you need to keep him out of reach.
Its gonna be hard thats no question, but to come through this you have to strong and fight for your choices. Your mum going away has given him the perfect opportunity and i really do hope you stay strong enough to withstand his "charms"...
Start to go out with friends not connected with him to draw your attention away from him, do some new things which you know you can focus on. Its all about diversion.
Stay strong and positive and if you do you will become a stronger person because of this for the future.
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