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reader, candy00s  +, writes (31 May 2007):
 OK, i think you should stop calling him. He knows you have called and isnt returning you calls. If you stop it might be a wake up call for him and he may well realise he could lose you.
Just give it chance to cool down.
xxx
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reader, sarcy24 +, writes (31 May 2007):
 Honey,This is the hardest thing in the world to do but STOP phoning him. Leave him totally alone for as long as you can ( and I mean days not hours) and he will call you. This definitely works. Do not continue to chase and pester as this just drives men nuts and classes you as needy which to a man is very unattractive. I can tell you this because all this has happened to me and when I totally left him alone he rang me. When the desire to ring/ text / e-mail is so strong go and have a cup of tea or do something physical or call a friend until the feeling pases. I promise you if you leave him alone totally for a while he will come back to you.Good luck honey,xx
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reader, love-him +, writes (31 May 2007):
 Hia chick u didnt say whos fault the argument was.. If you have tried to ring him back then my only thaught is for you to wait for him to ring you back.. if he doesnt get in contact for a week then id leave him a voicemail saying you arnt putting up with it.. i spose it is depending on whos fault the argument was and the severity of the argument.. mail me if u want to talk, i hope i helped x x x
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reader, gf123 +, writes (31 May 2007):
 Just wait for him to calm down. Sometimes people (especially men I find!) need time to cool down before they can face a situation. I know it's hard when you're worried and you want to resolve things but you can't do that when either one of you is still angry.
I'd suggest trying again tomorrow and distract yourself by finding something nice to do in the meantime.
Best of luck
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reader, nologo  +, writes (31 May 2007):
 It depends on what you expect yourself next.
Normally you should wait a bit to chill out.
As I guess you called him immediately after the quarrel.
This approach only works with few guys, not with your BF.
You can expect him to call first, but the wait may be long.
Come to him in several days if you wanna see how he is doing.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (31 May 2007):
 Wait for him to call you back, I guess. Was the argument your fault or are both of you at fault?
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